There is no girl without a past she has to have bf's in her life isn't that true? He says that I'm not good for him bcs I had a past I had 2 bf’s. So he told me when he looks for a wife he want one that doesn’t have a past or got a bf so she can be a saint. I find it hard to believe that there will be. Can you tell how to convince him that there isn’t any girl without a past??
2007-03-07 22:13:05 · 22 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did he mean a girl that has never have intimate relations or someone who has never ever dated? There are girls out there that have had neither. This person seems to know what they are looking for and if you aren't that then hun move on.
You will find your happiness while he waits and waits for his saint to come along which will take him a lot of looking, but they are out there.
You can't convince him of anything so why try to be with someone who doesn't want you!!! Open your eyes, go for your happiness and leave him alone to search for his saint, by the way.. when he finds here and gets her, she won't be a saint anymore.. I don't think it is sainthood he is looking for and I really feel sorry for the person that falls for his ideas.
2007-03-07 22:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And he never had a past gf? What about when you leave him for being an idiot? Then he too will have an ex! Oh no!
If you're talking about sex, seduce him. If he says no, be persistant until he gives in. Don't rape him of course, but pressure him. Most men would give in sooner than later unless they are gay or break up with you first, but after a break up it might be easier to get him to sleep with you because he'll know you don't want to stay the night or for him to call haha. It's so fun trying to get those 'lets wait 'til marriage' types to give in! It took me 3 months on a Catholic once.
It'll be funny when he tries explaining to his next girlfriend that he has a past.
The guys a dork and he sounds like a jerk, the best thing you can do is entertain yourself for now and move on. **** him and forget him! It'll be fun.
2007-03-07 22:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't convince him of it because he is living in the dark ages. In society today it will be very hard for him to find what he is looking for and you are probably better of without him if he has views like this. Let me ask you this, does he have a past? Are you just supposed to accept it if he does?
2007-03-07 22:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
somehow i dont think that he will believe you , you can try to convince him of this , but if he doesnt want a girl with a past , then he will have no future
there is no one perfect , and he will relise this , hopefully soon , but one day for sure.
besides , he has a past to - he needs to lay of the stupid pills
and stop justifing that he is a notch above everyone , and if his beliefs make him think that , then he must follow his beliefs, and think about what he is saying to deman others.
2007-03-07 22:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by DSV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'd better start "wife shopping" at the elementary school. Sound like your boyfriend needs a kick in the pants! Dump the jerk and find yourself a real secure man. This one is playing you. Godloveya.
2007-03-07 22:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh but there is. Not "ALL" girls have slept around. Some still believe it is best to wait for the right guy. And believe me, it's worth the wait. If you have never been married it is and should be possible to find a virgin. Sorry dear but that's a fact :) Some of us did wear white and have that right on our wedding day. And our children were raised with these morals as well. I've lived with these ideas all my life, I'm in my late 40s and have had less men in my bed then most 20 year old's, and it's not because I have to, I just am picky as to whom I invite into that part of my life. I don't need sex, I need to be loved and have someone that will allow me to love him in return, no games just life. besides making love with someone your in love with is FAR better then sex :)
2007-03-07 22:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
not quite convincing. there really are girls without firsts and pasts.
i think the best way to convince him is to tell him how deeply in love you are with him and that you are loyal to him by all means, that past is past, and you learn a lot from your past. besides, if he truly loves you, he will accept you from who and what you are, including the past that you left behind.
if he is not ready for that, then he is not ready to tie the knots with you.
amen.
2007-03-07 22:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by hypnotech 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
strange thing if u do not feel guilty its perfectly all ok with you
if he does not accept you forget it do not tie urself to him
why u shud bother to convinne him
let him have a clean girl never mind it is just possible
no need to get jealous
2007-03-07 22:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone with this sort of a mindset is not a person you want to be involved with. He won't change, so you better dump him.
2007-03-07 22:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He will grow old, lonely frustrating and looking, move on, and tell him to get a life.
2007-03-07 22:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋