...she says she'll hunt me down and make me change the kids nappy in front of all ther lads in the pub. How can I tell her having a kid is going to ruin her life?
2007-03-07 21:25:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
jeeze i think i hate you!
2007-03-08 03:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
il tell you what maybe you should grow up,, if you didnt want kids that is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY you should have used protection having kids doesnt ruin your life its one of the most fulfillng things in a persons life yeh sure it limits you to certain things that you can do (ie) you cant just go out to the clubs last minute kinda thing, i was told that having a baby would ruin my life by my exs mum but i had my child and is now four years old no matter how much snot or droole its been worth every moment i would do it all over again and ive brought ma child up by my self with no help from anyone, if i was speaking to your missus now i would tell her to get rid of you END OF
2007-03-07 22:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are unfortunate in not being able to have children.You and your "missis" have been blessed.There is so much to look 4ward to.Okay so its not all easy peasy but you bring someone into the world who loves you more than anything and you are a sad person to miss out on that feeling of loving someone more than life itself and more than you could possibly ever imagine.
She should have her baby and let you go.
It will be your loss! Especially when you,re old and grey and sat in that pub and all your friends "the lads!" are with their families
Regrets is all you will have....
I hope you think about this properly
Good luck to you missis and your unborn baby.
2007-03-07 21:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly it's not for you to tell her how it will effect her life Iam sure she is fully aware that if anything your the one that will ruin your child to be's life if it is going to be brought up with your attitudes and beliefs. !
If I was her I would do more than make you change nappy's in front of the "Lads" !
I don't know how old you are but I suggest that its time to grow up and become responsible.
**Just think if your parents had of took the same attitude you woudn't be here !
2007-03-07 21:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by mandaloo_mandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you tell her to get rid of an innocent life??this baby didn't ask to be made,you have no right to tell her to get rid of a life. You should have thought about this before you lay ed her down. If she wants to keep this baby then get use to the idea because no women will go through an abortion just because there man said so. Id rather be a single parent then get rid of a baby
2007-03-07 21:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't tell her that b/c it won't ruin her life. You should care about her and the baby that is growing inside of her. If she is your missus then you are responsible and obligated to take care of her and YOUR CHILD!!! If she wants to keep the baby, you should be all for it. This way you save her not only from heartache , but from murdering an innocent. By the way you ask your question, Its sound to me like you think that having a kid is going to ruin 'your' life!
2007-03-07 21:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Christian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my, the word knob head springs to mind! Having a child is a blessing and while YOU might see it as ruining YOUR life your girlfriend will see it differently.
If you ask me if you leave she has had a lucky escape. My advice to you is if you really don't want a baby then have a vasectomy. That way no poor woman will have to be given the ulitmation of abortion or having you run off to be with your mates.
Grow up you tosser!
2007-03-07 21:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lovewilltearusapart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad that you should say OUR kid that SHE is pregnant with.
It takes two to make a child. Now you seem to expect her to take full responsibility for having a child you both created or go through the trauma of having it terminated.
That is not concern for her or even love, that is selfishness and to be honest if that is how much you care for your 'missus' she is better off without you.
She is well within her rights to expect you to support your own child.Your decision not to have a child was waved when you decided to have sex.
2007-03-07 21:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by marvelous_mad_madam_mim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is her choice. it wont ruin her life. it will make her life more complicated, but also more fulfilling. you need to come to terms with the fact that you are having a child and you need to accept the responsibility for your child. your missus needs you right now. going through pregnancy isnt easy. you need to be there for her emotionally and make her feel safe and comfortable. dont try to convince her to get an abortion if she doesnt want one. there is no use, women decide to keep the baby or not.. and after that.. they usually dont change their minds.
2007-03-07 21:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by rel541 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having kids WON'T ruin her life. It was probably the most fulfilling and important thing that I've ever done with my life. Joanne M. has you pegged right. You aren't concerned about her life, you are concerned about yours. How selfish can a guy be? I think she might have picked the wrong boy.
2007-03-07 21:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a kid is not going to ruin her life. Her life has already been ruined by having wasted some of it on a moron like you.
2007-03-07 21:58:42 · answer #11 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋