feeling sorry for people, in the sense of pity, is just a disguied for of hatred. so generally I don't sorry for people in that sense.
Also, I am highly skeptical of the term 'loser'. This simply is not how I classify people. A 'loser' strictly speaking only exists within an ethical world view that is highly violent and competitive. to divide the world into winners and losers reflects the persons own psychological alienation from other people. it is the person dividing the world up that way that needs the most help. moreover, people are 'losers' and 'winners' only relative to arbitrary social norms, so the more you see through those norms, the less weight you'll put on those labels.
I feel compassion for many people, I generally feel more compassion for people labelled as 'losers' than other people simply because I feel more compassion for people that are on the wrong side of the arbitrary social classification labels this particular society at this particular time happens to have in accordance with its unique form of mass insanity. people that others label as losers, crazy, people that are generally lost and down and out are people I'm going to empathize with a lot more than say a succesful businessman. to me, to be well adapted to this society is a form of insanity, so i'm naturally drawn to people that are not well adapted to it.
2007-03-08 11:57:43
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answered by Kos Kesh 3
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losers cannot call themselves losers. They may not even know they are losers. Branding them this comes from outside perspective of other people whose standards of life is not in total conglomeration to what is theirs. In this light, it also has something to with different levels of satisfaction. For you as a winner, your satisfaction and standards may be a lot higher in degree than for us losers. Don't mind me, I have been called by someone this indirectly many times asking what is my motivation, ambition etc. But we are of totally different situations. A single man asking a single mom this question will entice different angles of considerations.
I play a different, imp[ortant role in life other than viewing to the virtual windows. I make others happy and understand life by giving them sensible advices, I am very well-liked as a person, hardworking, and I stand on my own without having to grab on someone to help me live.
2007-03-08 05:26:31
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answered by oscar c 5
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No I feel sorry for the people who make fun of people and see others as losers.
They are the ones in the most trouble mentally. Everyone is just fine the way that they are.
Seeing your self as Superior and someone else as inferior is always a cover for deep seated insecurity whether it is recognized for what it is or not.
Love and blessings Don
2007-03-08 07:42:36
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answered by Anonymous
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You know losers could be reading this question, don't you feel any shame? If I was a loser....., you know what **** you...., (has a melt down and goes and commits suicide).
I remember a story told to me in elementary school to this day.
Jonny was walking home from school with his books and had dropped them, Billy saw this and went to help him pick them up. They started talking and became friends. Later on Jonny went on to become class president and on thier graduation night when he gave his speech he gave a special thanks to Billy who had helped him those years ago. For it not been for him Jonny would be dead, he had cleaned out his locker that day and was going home to kill himself, but Billy's kind actions had changed his mind.
I know it's hard but try not to be too cruel ok? You're actions/words can make a difference.
2007-03-08 05:47:57
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answered by Justaguyinaplace 4
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Winners are losers who know they are losers. Sorry have got infected with this Zen virus sent by some malicious emailer.
2007-03-08 05:25:57
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answered by neologycycles 3
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Losers will not be losers always. They will be winners at some other time . So there is no need to feel sorry.
2007-03-08 05:48:33
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answered by subra 6
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I don't feel sorry for losers. being lost is part of reality. If there would be no losers, there would be no winners. It is parallel to the idea that if there would be no ugliness, then there would be no beauty.
2007-03-08 05:22:05
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answered by hitherto 2
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all depends where your looking from. does a single leaf thats falls from a tree have "an important role in our existence"?
2007-03-08 06:12:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I have compassion for those less fortunate.
Is that the same thing?
2007-03-08 05:25:16
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answered by DEMMY 3
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