You have no right to change a man, as he has none to change you. If a man ALLOWS you to change him, you will not respect him because you can control him. If you cannot change a man, well....maybe you were attracted to his strong sense of individualism in the first place?
Oh, and do you think that the next woman wants your wussie “changed man” after you have chewed him and spat him out?
2007-03-07 21:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Yes Rain, You were interupting. I have the awful aflicition of a multiple personality disorder. The one who asked the question is a woman and the one who answered is a man...its hell here in my head!! Ahhhhhhhhh!!
2007-03-07 23:34:15 · update #1
What. The. Hell.
Am I interrupting? Sounds like you're in a full-fledged argument with you and yourself. Or is this sort of like a "dear diary" entry?
Even after honest effort on my part, I still can't make heads or tails of this rant.
ADD ON:
Well I thought that's what was happening. Thanks for clearing that up. Again, sorry for interrupting. Carry on.
2007-03-07 22:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in the question. You can't, you wouldn't like a man that you can control. You never really change someone. You can control, maybe, or make him do what you want, act how you want. But, inside he would be the same, and that would come out sooner or later.
So, look for a man with a personality you really like. It's not easy because sometimes at first, we see only what we want to see. Anyway, accept the fact that nobody's perfect!!
2007-03-07 21:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to change anyone? If you are thinking so hard about changing him my suggestion is you should look a little closer at self. You must have some things you need to change. One should never get into a relationship with the idea or focus to change another human being. If he is not what you wanted find someone else. God bless****
2007-03-07 21:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're right. We can't change our man, our children, and it takes everything in us to change ourselves. If you are trying to change someone, it means you don't really love them or else you would accept them the way they are today.
2007-03-07 21:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Blessed 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, is this actually a question or are you just venting.... and I am with the person below, a person only changes if they want to.
2007-03-07 21:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guess that depends on who the next woman is. And whether or not you get any of him on her blouse.
2007-03-07 23:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can adapt yourself to different people or situations, but you should never change or try to change someone
2007-03-08 03:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! NOBODY changes unless they want to.
2007-03-07 21:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you cannit change someone
they have to want to change
2007-03-07 21:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by caitlin; xxx 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋