My bf said that he would as a favor get married to me for 5 months than we get a divorce bcs we don’t get on together we always fight in every conversation. Should I say ok and go ahead with it and try to make the best out of it?? Is there a possibility that he might change his mind about divorcing me? Or I just say lets break up and we go separated ways?
2007-03-07 21:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
think!! , why are you doing this , you are basically going into a commitment , with a single persons attitude , if you dont think it is going to work .. or , the ingredients are there which suggest that it isnt going to work , then dont enter into a commitment , because it will cost you when you get a divorce , and for what?
2007-03-07 21:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord! You both need a kick in the pants! Why in the world would you want to get married to someone you argue with all of the time hoping he'll stay with you? Are you that needy? Do you think that little of yourself? Get over it...split! You'll be sorry if you play this game especially if you get a baby involved. You both need to grow up! Godloveya.
2007-03-07 22:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married should be a lifetime committment, not today we marry, tommorrow we divorce. The suggestion should be to get out of the relationship and go your separate ways!!!! There are other fish in the sea!!! Someday you will find someone or they will find you!! Guaranteed!!!
2007-03-07 23:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by margret t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break up ...that's really not a good relationship you both are in always fighting ...Why in the world would you even think of marrying a guy you cannot even get along with?? makes no sense..why put yourself through so much crap??take care
2007-03-07 21:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y is he marrying you? you lost me. y wud u get married to divorce in 5months? does marriage not mean anything to people any more? and also marrying someone to trap them never works. if u have problems now, marriage is not going to fix things.
2007-03-07 21:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play with marriage. it's not a toy, it is a sacred act in front of God. if yo can't get along now, forget it. getting married for tricking someone is disgusting, immature and stupid.
2007-03-11 22:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyMo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like your thinking over a marriage for kind of your "life resume". Give it a try and honor your agreements.
2007-03-07 21:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u brk up now then later u may feel it may have worked out soooo giv him a chance
2007-03-07 21:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be the next britney spears
2007-03-07 22:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either u trust him or u do not.
2007-03-08 00:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋