actually i am 18 yrs old , i have tried a lot to be a matured person but still i am not able to be a matured person . My classmates say that you are a small kid ,bcoz u behave like a kid ,u talk like a kid your each thing youdo is like a kid do. so ,is their anybody who can help me in becoming a matured person, i will be very thankful to him/her.
2007-03-07 20:37:48 · 9 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe if you typed properly, that would be the first step into becoming "mature". And stop worrying about what people think about you.
2007-03-07 20:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
responsible, independent, matturity come through wisdom, experience, learned lessons. also respectfull, wise, stable, some ppl can be in early 30's and still imatture, example this guy mike 35, everyweekend at the bars, weekdays at the bars at the same bars by the way, talks complete non-sence and trash and looks forward to hook up with young chicks, or also one guy 34 as well, dressed preppy like teenagers or guys in early 20's, acts like he's in 20's, tans, wax himself, talks nonsence( not smart guy), shops all day long when he has time off, and does drugs and looks forwards to hook up or hang with young chicks in early 20's( or even 19 or 20) instead looking forward to form family. I think those kind of guys would never matture, even so they do have jobs but they think bs.
2007-03-07 20:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm truly infantile truly some the time,yet mature after I particularly could be,(maximum of my adolescence became 'lost',so Im attempting to relive it,i wager),and that i could quite act infantile than mature anyday,(yet I do have the understand-how now that i'm older),so are literally not making an identical mistakes that I did as a young person.
2016-12-05 09:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it will come in time ...you are at the beginning ...and the beginning is recognizing that you need to work on for yourself..do not worry it will come Tc also do not let them put you down but if you feel you are acting like a kid than maybe u just need to not act like one it all comes in time do not worry
2007-03-07 20:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matureing is a gradual process. You have to learn it through life. It involves taking responsibility for your actions, being considerate of others and their opinions, valuse and beleifs while thinking on your own and forming your own opinions values and beleifs. It means debateing instead of argueing. Staying calm and not losing your temper even when you are mad. Self control, self discipline and self worth.
2007-03-07 20:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your definition of mature? Sometimes in life you have to remain FUN!!! Look at Robin Williams, Ben Stiller..... they classified as goofballs but Im pretty sure that they are serious and mature when its needed. So too should you be, dont try to change who you are to please others. I am sure that you have your mature moments!
2007-03-07 20:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are good enough as you are. a lot of people much older will not admit what you have said. always be yourself-there is no one else like you.
2007-03-07 20:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be responsible
2007-03-07 20:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by exo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be more noticable
2007-03-07 20:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋