I desire this?

Question

I'm a girl and I desire to be bi , whats wrong with me ? i know i have talked about this before but how do I stop wanting to be bi ?please help me I think about wanting to be bi alot ,every day.

Answer 1

Honey, you can be bisexual if you want to.
It's a natural wanting.
If you really don't like it then try and push these thoughts out of your mind, focus on the things you like about your girlfriend...but I really wouldn't try and not be bi.
It's your natural feeling.

Answer 2

You can't stop wanting to be bi through meditation, reading the bible, eating more fruits and vegetables or any other thing like that. Your sexual orientation isn't something that is open to change but how you pursue it is your choice. Being bi doesn't mean that you have to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend. It just means that you are attracted to both in a sexual way. Rather than making it a big deal and fighting against it try to accept that this is who you are and be happy with yourself. Once you accept who you are then you can work on having the type of relationship that you want. Before you can love another you should learn to love yourself for who you are.

Answer 3

First, you need to ignore the bias and sterotypes and all the negativity associated with sexual preferences. There's nothing wrong with you! In the end it's your life and YOUR choice. Desiring the same sex could simply be you drawn to the forbidden fruit- it's interesting, exciting, exotic. This is "normal" If you find yourself in a lot of failed or difficult ralationships with the opposite sex this means perhaps you're not getting something you need. Again, it's your life too, and no one should have to sacrifice possible happiness for social prejudice...happiness is a right we all have. If you're attracted to someone specific, meet them, spend time with them see if they have the same feelings as you. Then you'll know if it's just a feeling, a curiosty or a need. Again remember it's YOUR life- to Hell with what others think! Best wishes!

Answer 4

Don't fight it, honey! Being bi is a completely natural desire, there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. I think being bi is an amazing experience, and it's easier when you learn to accept it.

Answer 5

You are a bi from the way you descibe yourself.
The thing is, you think that it's wrong so you're trying to escape from what you are.
Do as you feel you want to do.
You can stay in the closet all your life and just have secret relationships as I do as a bisexual male.
I'm married and no one including my closest friends and family know that (as I did just a few hours ago today) I regularly have sex with other bisexual and gay persons.
A bisexual/gay needs to be careful about who the become involved with.

Answer 6

BI,gay, lesbian, don't worry about lables , when you find the person that you are meant to be with, then thats what it is, LOVE and theres no other word for it. Whom ever it is, i am sure that they will love you back and it isn't going to matter who or "what" they are.

Answer 7

there is nothing wrong with being bi. "desire to be" is one thing, "do it" and find out if you really are bi or if you are just physically attracted to gals.

Answer 8

If you are bi then wanting to change is not going to make a blind bit of difference.

If you're not bi - but wanting to be - then wanting to change is not going to make a blind bit of difference.

You're stuck with who you are.

Answer 9

There's nothing wrong with you. It's natural to want to explore different avenues of sexuality. Go with your desires. It will help ease your curiosity and frustration.

Answer 10

I don't believe that there is such a thing as Bisexual. Either you like one or the other. Curiosity killed the cat