what would you do if you found out by accident that your husband had been going through your phone, has had a key logger installed on your home pc and had paid a private detective £500.00 to have you followed and got nothing for his money.
2007-03-07 18:49:10 · 26 answers · asked by a_working_wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
kick his *** out of my life.
2007-03-07 19:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First if he had nothing with the private detective it means you are being good, so I would laugh my *** off to him. But you know what? why don't you turn around and do him the same way he is doing you.. Some men they judge their women for the things that they been known to do. Maybe a detective can help you find out what is he out there doing and then trying to get dirt on you to ease his guilt.. Think about that..other than that I would say talk to your husband and seek some counseling cause that what he did is not freeking normal. good luck.
2007-03-08 00:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They fall in line with construction workers, plumbers, etc. the whole service industry has fallen prey to the belief that a lack of immediate assistance will add value to their service and increase their pay or draw out the project and their weekly pay. *looks over, spoon with icing in one hand joint in the other* Next time you contract with the lady you should offer an immediate assistance bonus and decrease the amount paid over time thus ensuring a speedy release. She just likes to whine, no matter if it is one on one or a whole baseball team she just wants to whine... its her signature move. You know all you needed to yell, was "Courtney put down the bong and get your azz in here" *walking down into the dungeon still smoking the J* - I thought you were willingly tied as so often occurs with my friends. Seemed a little strange, but I didn't know what to expect with you Brits and I figured hell this dames pretty smart, have house guests and get "locked" in the dungeon, way to duck out... Ted has been missing also and I thought maybe he was detecting in there with you.... *walks over to cell and frees you* Is everything good now? We have a few more hoodies to shoot, I made a bar run last night to replenish our supply and you have some anger that you may want to get out... You Brits really now how to grow the reefer my friend; oh and having JP frisked was a great idea, some of your personal stuff was discovered... Don't count on a discount from her, she bi+ch slapped me and said I was a dickette the other night so I actually work for her or you or whatever, can I get paid in pot, please?
2016-03-28 23:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given him reason to be so insecure?
Honestly though this would really scare me.It is a violation of your privacy.At the end of the day you have the right to live your life.What if he had found you doing something he wasnt happy about?
Would he be hiring a hitman next?
I say, you need 2 leave or he does.
You cant have a marriage built on such suspicion and he sounds a bit loop di loop.
Id rather be a singleton anyday
2007-03-07 20:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering what he has been up to or what he is going to get up to. It is a known fact that a deceiptive partner often tries to blame the honest partner for all the problems in the marriage. Honestly though if he has gone through all that and you have not given him a reason to question if you're faithful then he doesn't trust you at all and relationships are meant to be built on trust and to me sounds like you's have no foundation for a relationship at all. Is he maybe going to divorce you and was trying to get some dirt on you so he doesn't have to pay you out. Sounds very strange to me.
2007-03-07 18:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you know this? Rather than just say 'thats it' i think you should sit him down and speak to him about why he's done this, why doesn't he trust you - has he had a bad past that could in anyway make him feel insecure?
2007-03-07 20:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ebab831 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont leave. He is obviously distressed and thinks you are being deceitful. You need to chat to see if you can sort this out and maybe try councilling. Then if all else fails leave.
2007-03-07 20:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering why he feels the need to have you followed.You do no when a husband or wife cheats he feels she is probably doing the same thing he is.If I were you I would do to him as he is to me see what he is doing when your back is turned
2007-03-07 19:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious he does not trust you and feels you are cheating on him. Trust is huge in a relationship. If he can t handle it, then you both should go your seperate ways.
2007-03-07 19:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have anything to hide, so I'm not mad. Why did he do that?! Am I in danger. That's my only concern. He can have me, But I need to know that he is real and why won't he talk to me?!!!
2007-03-07 18:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he suspects that you are having an affair. It is time to have an open discussion. I certainly wouldn't forget about it.
2007-03-07 18:54:34 · answer #11 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋