Anyone who knows about sagittarius people can help me???? (a little long, but please help and give advice)?

Question

hi all, im a leo japanese girl, was having a long distance relationship with a sagittarius spanish guy whom i met 1 n a half yr ago in japan. We were madly in love even we were apart. I'd say tat he is typical sagittarius and i'm a typical leo.

We lived together in spain last summer. Were great. I returned to Jap in Sep meanwhile he started his new job. Since then he has been busy and confused with his feelings for me once in a while. We met again in Xmas and 07 new year. His confusion was gone and he found tat he really loved me. I came back to Japan in January. Things were good.

After my return, he was confused again, i gave him time, he was fine again; he was sure that he didnt wanna lose me, and we were planning to meet in Easter. I sent him valentine's gift and stuff. A few days later he decided to break up with me, he said tat he has lost his love feelings for me, n that he feels guilty that i treat him so nice.

I suggested to hold on until easter. He rejected coz he wants to treat me like friend, but he is afraid that he cant treat me like a friend if he sees me.

I dont know if i should still go to Spain in Easter to see him and have a last try. As he is so Sagittarius, im afraid that if i dont see him now, if i give him time now... he will just catergorize me like a friend, a 'history' and then he'll never consider a relationship with me again, coz Sag people let things go so easily, break up and be friends!

I wonder if his feelings will be back again when we meet, afterall sags are v. passionate people. Fire and spark may arise if we meet again? Maybe his feelings will be back if we have face-to-face contact? However im also worried tat i may look clingy if i insist on meeting. He may be angry that i insist on meeting him?

Is there any sag guys and gals or anyone who knows something about sags can help me?

Answer 1

Hmm, sounds like this guy has more to be guilty about than just you being so good to him. Of course, I have no real evidance of this, but seeing as how the break up was all so sudden, it seems there might have been an outside source to this.

Now, as far as signs go, I've known a few sags over the years, and have found them all to be pretty awesome friends. Yeah, kinda whispy and airy at times, but hey, that's what makes them so much fun! One of my old childhood friends was a pure sag. We were friends for a long time. I was about 5 when we met, and she was around 9. Big age diff, yeah. But we were the BEST of friends. I ended up moving to another city, and the distance drove us apart. We held contact for awhile but without having physical contact our communication wavered to a letter a year, and then, nothing.

Point of the story? On a freak chance, just this last summer, I bumped into her at a gas station in a city between where we both live. She was really excited to see me. I, being a Virgo, stared at her for a second, speechless. She jumped up and hugged me and asked for my number. I gave her mine, not even thinking toask for hers cause I was so shocked. She then promptly took off. It was a quick affair and I was still totally taking aback by it.

Bottomline. She never called me. No hard feelings really, but I thought maybe she would call me. Oh well. I don't know if this story will hold any relivance to what you're asking. But if you're wondering how this flame of yours will react to your seeing him, I don't see why wouldn't enjoy your stay.

But again, his abrupt dismissal of what you two had sounds fishy. I don't know if you'd want to look into it or not. He might not appreciate any "suspiciousness" of his moral, especially being the carefree sag that he is.

I suppose my main suggestion is to just go ahead and see him as a friend, and hope for the best. If it's meant to be, it'll work out :)

The best to you!
Anna

Answer 2

Evean though it may seem like the right thing to do , don't meddle in a friend's relationship. You'll only end up making enemies in the long run.
In a troubling situation, those around you look to you as the center of the chaos. To revise their ways of thinking, remove yourself from the spotlight.
You will feel upbeat and downright playful this week.Have fun with this youthful attitude by hosting a crowd on the weekend.
A big brawl with a family member puts you in a foul mood this week. It may be time to cut ties with this person once and for all , as much as it may hurt.
You need to spend a lot of time mending some emotional fences with family members. Right now you are considered an outcast and not much in favor.
You're considering making a career change , because you feel you've grown beyond your current job. Find someone who can lend an ear to your situation.
Leave your carefree mood at home when you decide to make a shopping trip. Otherwise , you could make some rash purchases and end up striking out in the bargain department.

Answer 3

He is a typical Sag. Sags have problems committing and Sag boys can be a bit of a player.

Answer 4

im a sag girls and i agree with anna.. just be friends.. let time tells him that u deserves him..

best of luck! = )