I feel upset and I don't know why. Can someone help me sort out my feelings about this? We're both young, just 21. I don't have a boyfriend, am I just jealous? I don't understand why I'm not happy for her, but I just found out about it tonight and I can't help but feel upset, and even sort of hurt. Why am I feeling this? What's wrong with me? Thanks for the help.
2007-03-07 17:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by dandelion86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should not be jealous of her messed up life...
2007-03-07 17:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're upset b/c you (like me) feel that cheaters should live long, lonely miserable lives! But the reality is she has moved on and now has a boyfriend....which by the way is ONLY a rebound guy and that won't last very long. You on the other hand are probably a sweet girl who takes marriage and commitment a lot more serious than your friend and that my dear is why you are upset. It's ok to feel this way just don't try to explain it to your friend if you want to remain "friends"
2007-03-08 02:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think this is jealous, because she is smart enough to get men, and taking advantage of her ability or beauty she have. But you could not make even one boy friend so far!
My advise, don't worry about this. God made human in different ways and intention. I believe your friend is misusing what she have. But you also have some other qualities that you are not taking care. I f you could find that and make use of it your life will be happier.
Wish you a happy life.
2007-03-08 02:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u feel upset because ur friend turned out to be an unfaithful slu t ( sorry for the agreessive tone , i just hate cheating and cheaters, nothing is more disgusting or cowardly)
2007-03-08 01:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by should i ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is because she did a bad thing and came out on top anyway. Life is not fair. We are taught that it is fair but it is not. Things happen to people who do not deserve it all the time. Being a good person is its own reward. It will pass as you return to being yourself. Good Luck It will pass believe me.
TIME WOUNDS ALL HEELS
2007-03-08 01:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a disgrace - a divorce at all, let alone after only a year.
2007-03-08 01:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's a cheater and now she gets rewarded for it by having a boyfriend.
2007-03-08 01:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it has something to do with your negative body image. or maybe the root of this "trauma" lies in your crippling lack of self-esteem.
only kidding. I dont know why this would affect anybody, but good luck finding your answer.
2007-03-08 03:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by redcharvel375 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on your own personal life and leave hers alone.
2007-03-08 01:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are disappointed in her and may be reconsidering your friendship with her because if she would cheat on her husband she would definitely ditch you if you ever made her mad.
2007-03-08 03:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your idea about life is young, when we get married it is supposed to be forever, but reality is different, true love is becoming old news
2007-03-08 02:16:00 · answer #11 · answered by kathleen h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋