i am in love he praposed me but i have rejected because my parents are against it what i should do?

Answer 1

If you have to ask, then I think you should wait, and how old are you?

Answer 2

If you rejected him because your parents don't approve, then you shouldn't be marrying this person. There are several reason why you should stand by your decision. If you were able to decline is proposal then I would think that the one or more of following are true:

* If you are so concerned about what your parents think about this guy, then you must not be completely sure about him yourself.

* You don't really love this person as much as you need to in order to be in an enduring marriage. If you aren't able to stand up to your parents about marrying him now, then you won't be up to the trials and tribulations that come with being married to this person. I have found that it is very true that no only do you marry the person, but also their family. And, when there isn't support from the parents or the spouse doesn't like the parents, it puts an additional strain on the marriage.

Also, you sound young to be concerned about this. There is plenty of time to change either your parents minds about supporting your relationship with this guy by showing them just how well you too are together or you will change your mind to agree with him or later you will simply accept the fact that they don't support you marrying this person and you will choose to any way. No matter which, time is on your side. There is nothing worse than jumping into a marriage and knowing that you have made the wrong choice.

Best of luck!

Answer 3

and you call it being "in love"? the answer is simple, YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE. You cannot even justify it. Your rents shouldnt be able to overpower your feelings to this guy unless youre letting them. And what can i say, youve already let them talk to you into rejecting him.

1.I was in love with a person and EVERYONE was against our marriage but because of true love, I went by my will and now we are very happy.

2. This guy isnt gonna love you forever, eventually his gonna have to move on and find someone else. But if you choose him, Im pretty sure your parents will eventually accept your decision, they may be upset for a little while but they are your parents. Theyre always gonna be there for you and im sure they wont despise you.

3. Are you sure you love him? because if you do, you will do anything for this person. If not, your parents saying no is already an enough reason to reject him. =)

Answer 4

Well this is common, we always sacrifice the "love" for the loved ones! Strange! Isn't it?
You need to figure this out by examples set by others in life for us. Find out if anyone you know had to go through this situation then see if you can do the same.

I know one girl in family went against the parents and they stopped talking to her. So there was no contact for almost two years, then came the baby in the third year!! Do I have to say that everything is now fantastic!!

You be the judge of it as it varies from family to family!!

Answer 5

You are in a very bad situation. I would like to suggest you to have a talk with your parents and discover why your parents rejected him. If for a bad reason like money or other stuff, I would like to suggest to stand with your boyfriend. But if your parents thinks that he is lacking some qualities, then help him to fulfill it. And, guess what you can get your boyfriend and your parents, both instead of choosing one of them. So, just do it...

Answer 6

The best thing that I can say is that I married a man whose mother and grandmother hate me for no apparent reason. But my husband loved me enough to marry me and we have never been happier. U need to face the fact that this life is very short and you should be as happy as possible. If this man can offer you security, friendship and happiness, I say go for it. Your parents, if they love you, will learn to deal with it. I'm not saying that it will be easy by any means, but sometimes that other person is enough to make it worth the crap you have to go through.

Answer 7

:-/ thats tough, it depends on why ur parents are against it, parents are usually right about these things, but if its about race, u might just have to sit them down and say sorry guys but ur living in the past, otherwise i would give it some time once they see how much u love eachother and that your willing to work hard to have a great life together they usually give in

Answer 8

Hi my name is Jason first of all if you are 18 then it is time to tell your parents what you want. if you truly love this guy and you know that you will be with him for the rest of your life then you should talk to your parents telling him why and how much you like the kid. there fore you can accept the proposal. if you are 18 then it is time to stand up and to start controlling your life, the way you want it.

Answer 9

Well sometimes situations are like these that u do things u normally wont do.
Parents are very important to our life but try to find out a reason why they disagrred to it. May be it can be recitified or you can try convincing your parents that he is the right one.

Otherwise its your decision. Either Accept your parent's decision and move on or stick to him and may be marry him without your parents consent and may be later asking them to accept your relation.

Answer 10

If you rejected him b/c of your parents why are you asking us what to do? Why didn't you think of asking others b4 you rejected him?

What is your priority in life? Is it to get along with your parents and maybe be single until they are dead? Is it to be happy with your husband and maybe not spend much or any time with your parents? Once you answer that question, you know what to do.

Answer 11

U must try to convince your parents. Do not reject the offer, but explain to your bf the problem, and together u can work out a solution.