Are there any questions out there for dealing with the passing of a loved one and how to cope with a loss?

Question

My husband past away suddenly 2 years ago. but it still hurts. we have been married for 35 years, which not only weighed heavenly on my mind but, weighed heavenly in my heart. It is very hard for me to get over this, even now which is 2 years later, the hurt still is there. What is even more tramatic is that he passed away in the house, next to me. So I am hoping that there is someone who understands and is willing to share and help me to try to get through this.

Answer 1

OHHH I am sooo sorry for your loss. That must have been devastating. How lucky you were though to have such a long and loving marriage. Many search forever for that and do not find it.

On aol, there is a chat room for widows and widowers and a LOT of people go there to talk about their loss and their grief. They even get to be very good friends and share a lot of laughs sometimes. I would highly recommend you go there. I also welcome you to email me any time you feel down.....or for no reason at all. I would be happy to help you as best I can.

Answer 2

Part of moving past grief is to look at the positive things that occurred. Perhaps He went quickly and avoided a long illness and severe paid. That would be something to be thankful for. The 35 years You shared are more than most and looking at those good times should strengthen you and give you a sense of accomplishment for it lasting so long. The time has come to look forward and do what He would want. Move on and find joy in life while honoring His memory. Find new hobbies, new friends and use the support of family and friends to get going forward again.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel.My best friend passed away last year,and my ex-boyfriend passed away last year also.Those were the most hardest things I've ever dealt with in my life.I just remember all the good times we'd share and think of how happy they are now.I know that my best friend is looking down on my and smiling her beautiful smile.I miss them both so much but I know they are no longer suffering.For everything there is a season and through all the pain there is a reason,god keeps us close by the pain we know always.For every tear you cry there's a reason why,it will make you wise someday.

Answer 4

you can never forget him anyway you want, but you can learn to move on and continue with your life... it's different of you lost him coz he just went away coz there's still hope that he'll come back rather than lost him because he passed away. start accepting that he will never come back but think that someday you'll be together again in another world. make your self busy, enjoy it with your kids if you have. don't make your self alone so you wont think of him that often yet if your thinking about him think of all the happy moments of your life being together. i'll pray for you that you will overcome your sadness... goodluck and always smile don't gry!!