2007-03-07 16:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Jadinka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hon, just because you may be overweight doesn't make you a loser. It will be hard for you to make friends if you think that badly of yourself. Find some kind of hobby or do some volunteer work or something that will make you feel better about yourself and then you will make friends naturally. Maybe find some work at an animal shelter, they always need volunteers and you obviously love your pets so you will have something in common w others there from the start.
2007-03-07 17:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen just cuz you may not have any friends doesnt mean your a loser, people may think that cuz they dont know you, which isnt right.
If you really want to get friends just be yourself, someone will your personality and will want to get to know you more, but just member not everyone is going to like you, cuz nobody likes every one,
If i were you i'd find a social talent that your good at like being funny, or understanding, it doesnt matter if you know the person or never seen them before in your life spark up a conversation that you think will peep their interest, or talk about somthing that your interested in others might share that interest, you could also try joining clubs or sports which is a great way to meet friends, just make sure you pick the right friends and dont be friends with someone just to be popular cuz to be popular is being liked and trusted by the people you care about..
trust my advice, and use it, you will have friends in no time at all!!
and remember your not a loser!!!
2007-03-08 01:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to not think of yourself as not a loser, sometimes how we perceive ourselves is how we portray ourselves to others. Second try the gym, great place to meet people, some gyms even have outings that can make meeting new people a lot easier. Remember that people are attracted to other people that have positive attitudes. Nobody wants to hang out with someone that is always feeling sorry for themselves. Also don't be afraid to initiate a conversation, if you get blown off, who cares there are millions of other people out there that will enjoy your personality and will want to create a friendship with you. Remember that it is always easier to share a conversation with someone who shares the same interests, so get out of the house and locate some groups that share the same interests.
2007-03-08 01:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Advice25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out! Don't sit in front of this contraption we call a computer. There are probably other fat losers doing the same thing all over. Go to arcades, the mall, batting cages, stuff like that.
2007-03-08 01:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have confidence in yourself. Nobody is going to be your friend, until you start beliving in YOU. A great book is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" You need to get yourself together first, maybe get a haircut and some new clothes for a quick pick me up then go out there and start making friends! Take a walk, join some club, take up an art course. Your not going to make any friends just sitting arond. You need to take ACTION and you need to do it now!
2007-03-08 01:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by someoneyoudontknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont call yourself a fat loser, I'm sure you are a beautiful person and have a delighful personality... just be more friendly and have some confidence in yourself.. people love someone who has a postive outlook on life, if you like i'll be your friend.. hehe
2007-03-08 01:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by meryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being friends with the family. However, do you have a social life? Like going to church, or joining a club. There are ways to gain friends, especially a hobby you share with others. n
2007-03-08 01:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like working on a promotion you have to network, start slow show a little more confidence than usual, say hello to be people don't come off to hard you might scare them. You might have more in common with other people than you thought, don't expect anybody to come home and play PS3 anytime soon it will be a process.
2007-03-08 01:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Compa Migue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop worrying about how many friends you have and what you look like you'll start being yourself. This is one of the biggest attractions people can have. I think you'll be amazed at the results.
2007-03-08 01:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being nice to people. Laughing at their jokes and when they do talk to you make sure you talk about them not yourself alot. Find some common ground
e.g Someone in your english class, Ask about an assignment or complement them on theyre bookwork.
2007-03-08 01:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋