ok at school through 6-8 grade i feel sorta rejected no one likes me what so ever because i dress differenet and this is kinda a atheletic school and i'm pretty weak so i'm made fun of a lot and they always call me a gay guy because i'n not strong i'm thirteen and does anyone know how i can get muscles and asap so i would be more accepted this really sucks it leaves me totally depressed and i don't want to tell my parents or counsiler cuz she usually tells my parents so anyone please telll me what i can do i would really appreciate it
2007-03-07 16:36:19 · 8 answers · asked by punk_rocker13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't change to please to people. Please just ignore them & learn to be comfortable with who you are. Its been a while since I was in school, but I haven't forgotten how important it is to be accepted. People need to accept you for who you are. The ones who do, they will be your true friends.
2007-03-07 16:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will be ok kid. Muscles take some hard work exercise running weight lifting physical activity and if kids don't like you cause of the way you dress then they are not good friends to have anyway. you should be friends with people with the same interests and that like you exactly the way you are. 13 is a really hard age because you are just getting to know yourself you gotta have at least one friend and you know what thats good enough all those other people you won't even see or talk to anymore once you graduate. there is a huge world full of people just like you that feel the same way and even more people that will accept you for who you are. Are you interested in any sports you just gotta work on the one you enjoy the most and that may solve your problem. but don't think your alone almost every 13 year old i have ever come across even the really popular kids feel the same way some day you will blossom and who knows Prom KING ;)
2007-03-08 00:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by blenda_dabomb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boy i got u bro im built im berly 14 okay wat u need to do is
1)eat healthy
2)drink milk
3)get proteen like in gust get eggs and put them in a cup dont do nothing to them gust dribk them put 5 eggs and drink
(beside food)
u need to work out with weights badley boy buy some and if u cant then gust do 30 push ups everynight before u go to sleep and 40 sit ups gust do that for a couple of days and maybe u will see a little bit of changes but u reallly need to do is dont care wat people say about u homie gust join football league out side of school and u will defently get big alright
2007-03-08 00:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be your self and ignore all the stupid idiots who make fun of you. The only reason they do it is to make them selves feel better themselves and to take attention away from thier flaws.
2007-03-08 01:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by K.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know its fine, im 13 too, people will make fun of other people, jsut to boost thier confedence levels up, and who knows, maybe u will find a pretty girl and they will have you will have the last laugh
its ok, dont listen to those type of people
:D
-Allison
2007-03-08 00:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masturbait on a huge scale of 98.5 times a day alternating hands while doing jumping jacks.
2007-03-08 00:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sentient6 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You could maybe dye your hair. If it wasn't blue i don't think that you would get made fun of.
2007-03-08 00:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
say " I don't care what you think and I'm me and you can't change that."
2007-03-08 00:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋