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i am heartbroken.. he went to another girl

2007-03-07 16:14:47 · 17 answers · asked by tornpants 1 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

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Hi Tornpants,
I am really sorry to read this... :/
Time, don't attempt to rush the mending process... You can't, it's that simple... Easier said than done, but find something "positive" about the situation, that caused the heartbreak... Remember that it's your heart and that you don't have to allow it to be broken permanently...
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Try not to dwell on it, keep yourself busy, and get a good support system of friends together.. to help you through the rough times....
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I wish you all the best...!
And, I hope.... in time, that someone will come along, to give you "the Love", that you deserve..............
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Thanks, for the question!;)

My regards!

Take care!

2007-03-07 16:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 1 0

First you have to realize that the heartbreak will not last forever. You also have to accept it's hard and be prepared to face the empty feelings. Soon enough it will go away. Keep busy, meet new people, do a kind thing for someone. Know that there are millions out there who are undergoing the same thing. What won't break you will make you a stronger and better person. And he's not right for you anyway.

2007-03-07 16:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Robbie 1 · 2 0

you will stop being miserable because someone will tell u that every experiance in life good or bad = a good lesson life is just a seriese of lessons. you can only inprove when you fail or something fails to go wright for you use this experiance cherish it if this didnt happen u would never know how to deal with heart brake .There is nothing wrong with feeling down for a while a long while in fact as long as you dont ignore the hidden lesson the lesson of becoming a stronger person ..

i hope you read this cus i was where u are now not so long ago his loss is someone elses gain SMILE

2007-03-08 07:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can overcome heartbreak by healing. There are several ways to do this. You can go in a room by yourself and scream to let your feelings out. You can also channel all of your hurt in the form of writing. This is a helpful and therapeutic strategy. Over time, you will mend.

2007-03-07 16:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It takes time really. It sucks for a little while but your best bet is to know you will find someone else out there. Keep yourself busy, join a club, go to the gym I find myself exercising and it helps me keep my mind of my ex, and another suggestion would be to volunteer for an organization that you would like to do something for either girls, or others. Like Girl Scouts, Breast cancer foundations...etc... If you keep busy and fill the time you'd spend with your ex with other activities in no time he will just be a fragment in your mind.

2007-03-07 16:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 2 · 0 0

I had 3 significant heartbreaks . in basic terms shop your self busy . It receives extra effectual and you learn from this . as quickly as we conflict by way of a puzzling time with coronary heart destroy it means we positioned this individual on a pedestal ' while they might desire to of positioned us up there . regrettably existence is done of heartaches ' its how we deal and circulate on this is the main mandatory difficulty we are human human beings exchange and we can't end this . we would desire to continually circulate on so that that is going to locate that genuine individual for us who will do regardless of he can to make you happy . on occasion breakups is a fashion of shifting the incorrect individual so the superb suited you will are available in. sturdy success

2016-09-30 09:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Hey! He did you a favor even tho it doesn't feel like that now. Would you rather he had waited til you got married, had 2.5 children, a dog/cat and a hefty mortgage and filled up charge cards to call it quits? Lucky you....you have the rest of your life to live and one day you will really find that which you seek.

2007-03-08 11:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by missellie 7 · 0 0

Its ok, it happens and it might take awhile but eventually you will get over it. Its hard but you just have to remember if he didn't stay with you than he wasn't the one for you. You will find your soulmate, your other half just be patient and be open to new relationships.

2007-03-07 16:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 1 0

it takes time. don't sit around and think about the creep. he's not worth you thinking about. if he sees or hears you are getting o with your life. he will either come around and realize he made a mistake or go on with his life. good luck, i know it hurts, but be strong and you'll meet someone who will be worthy of you affections and life.

2007-03-07 16:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just keep repeating to yourself that he wasn't good enough for you anyway! And think how she will feel when another one comes along and he leaves her, too.

2007-03-07 16:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by worldwise1 4 · 1 0

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