Why do men waste money on beautiful women?

Question

In general, why do most fairly educated men with common sense would waste so much money to spend on beautiful women in hoping to have sex with her?

I am not saying that all men would spend lavishly on beautiful women to have sex and all beautiful women manipulates their money for their body.

However,I am astonished that the vast majority of these educated men would gladly empty out their wallets to impress a beautiful woman to have sex with him. I am also astonished of how when two different women treat a man badly, he would almost most certainly forgive the woman that is more beautiful.

All men knows that inner beauty from a woman is real value. Sadly, most of these men perfer to give up everything for a physically beautiful woman with no inner beauty.

Answer 1

I honestly disagree with you on the point that all men know that a woman's real value is inside. I know several men who have no clue that this is, in fact, true. I agree with you on the rest of it though. It makes no sense. I think maybe it has something to do with status. Maybe these men think that a beautiful woman on their arm and in their bed makes them more of a man, and they are willing to pay a high price to achieve this. I'm sure they think that their friends and colleagues are impressed when they have a gorgeous woman fawning all over them, even if she happens to be a complete idiot. I have little respect for a man who looks for the outside and nothing else. I have less respect for a woman who willingly demeans herself by sleeping with a man she isn't interested in for a meal ticket.

Answer 2

Sex is a powerful drive in men. Sex with a beautiful woman is just plain worth a lot to many men. I can't explain it that well, I just know it is.

Me? I'm too cheap to do that. But that doesn't mean I don't feel the desire.

The flip side can be said. I know several women who married losers the first time around because they loved the man completely, but married for company and security the 2nd or 3rd time around, after being burned by Mr. Wrong.

Why is it so many women marry obvious losers who will treat them badly? The signs are all there if they will open their eyes, but they just marry anyway hoping he'll change.

Answer 3

Rather than write something cynical, I'd rather celebrate strong men who DON'T compromise their terms, who DON'T sell out ... for the sake of winning a beautiful woman.

Enjoy the following movies:
1. Casablanca: Rick Blaine doesn't sell out Laszlo and his laudable efforts in the Resistance. Rick insists that beautiful Ilsa get on the plane to be at her husband's side, supporting her husband, where she belongs! Rick puts the two exit visas to a higher purpose, and walks east with his friend Louis.
2. In the original The Thomas Crown Affair, with Steve McQueen and Faye Dunaway, he can take or leave her, unless she's willing to have a relationship on HIS uncompromising terms.
3. Life as a House: the ex-wife (Kristin Scott Thomas, a fine actress who's made a fine career of playing sexy, wayward wives) gets intigued by her ex's progress with their son. The ex-husband doesn't care for her sudden interest.
4. In High Noon, Gary Cooper wins beautiful Grace Kelly, and when she threatens to walk out before the honeymoon even starts, he's willing to sacrifice the relationship in order to keep his honor and fight off the outlaws' threats. She soon proves just how important that relationship is to her, morals or not.

Answer 4

worldly or well educated: most men are idiots as i've seen more than my share of examples already in my life. men focus on outer beauty because they think with their penis and bot their brain, and sometimes they don't think at all. Intelligence at times has nothing to do with education but common sense and moral values.

Answer 5

Only inside your head.