I'm like so jealous and stuff of the way society is to heterosexual people....and treat the homos like crap. Society is soo COLD!!! to gay and bi people, to a point where I'd rather die than to say that I'm gay. I remain in the closet because I wouldnt dare wear that label on my back. I dont like being gay myself but I am so dam it. Just like I can see two girls kissing in society...and nothing wouldnt be said, but quick to lay to GUYS doing that together. I mean I have to hide my boyfriend. I cant hold his hand in public like a man and woman relationship. I just seems like I'm in the way of all the straight people because its more of them in this world...so us gay guys are a waste of matter in the world we live in.
2007-03-07 15:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't say that. I'm bi and my lil sister just came out of the closet last year. She's strong but me on the other hand......my family doesn't know that I'm bi. Well, just live your life. Eventually, if you haven't already, you will meet 'Mr. Right' and will want to tell the whole wide world that you love him no matter what people may say. People talk and you can't please everyone no matter what you do so just please you and your man. You two create a sort of bubble and don't allow anyone else's negativity penetrate that bubble. I wish you all the luck and happiness from the bottom of my heart. BTW, don't let others cause you to feel ashamed because you run the risk of losing your boyfriend. He might start to feel that you don't take the relationship seriously.
2007-03-07 15:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by #2 on the way! due 12/28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're not space wasters kiddo :). We can and do contribute to society in very meaningful ways (volunteering, social work, disposable incomes etc etc etc).
The only trouble is that people get hung up on biology and the ways that you can't contribute instead of focusing on the positive aspects =/.
I agree that it's odd for our culture to think that it's generally ok for two women to show affection both in and out of public. I always joke with friends that society views a penis as a terrible thing to waste (i.e. if you're not chasing women at every turn and trying to pump out kids then somehow you're not doing your duty as a man :P). Women on the other hand have to deal with the stereotype that they just haven't found the right man >_< what crap!
About the hand-holding in public thing.... we can only hope that some time down the road people in general will be more accepting of diversity.
Best wishes,
2007-03-07 23:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gene M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a waste.
Never think that way and I can tell you this when I kiss my gf in public I can tell you this the reason people don't say anything is because it's mostly straight men wishing they could join.
Another thing you should be proud of who you are never be ashamed because some people are stupid. I use to feel this way but I grew out of it when I just faced the fact that I was a lesbian and was proud of it, and said to hell with everyone else who didn't like it.
2007-03-07 23:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is becoming more acceptable of peoples sexuality only because men and women are not hiding in the closet so much anymore. Once your out ..... then you can help educate more people. There are some that will never accept but they are ones you wouldnt want in your life anyway. Don't hide......Stand Tall and Educate narrow minds
2007-03-07 23:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a christian. i do not think it is right for people to be mean to the homosexuals, but don't you think it is wrong to put a group in a whole and say they are bad? a lot of the homosexuals I meet are very nice. each individual is differet though. I am sorry you are so strained by this but I can't say too much about that. I have my beliefs that it is wrong,but many christians make fun of it and I do not agree.
2007-03-07 23:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kara H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you are gay or not dont take an notice of what people think im fat and i get scared at too but i guess we just have to live with it, if you want someone to blame get onto those religous freaks, bunch of contradicting twits!
2007-03-07 23:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kenny K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why live in fear of what you do?In our society it is a taboo to eat hyena,but it is said if you eat it carry its paw in public so that everybody can see you are a hyena eater,but remember what christ taught when he was on this earth.He is coming again.Be ready for him.
2007-03-07 23:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by mukwathagicu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay is no problem but if you have the other you will find the best.
2007-03-08 02:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Winter Prince 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you.
You are not a waste.
2007-03-07 23:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋