i have 2 friends that i used to go to school with till i moved about 3 years ago. for about a year now its been hard to talk to them even though i hardly ever get a chance to. i have seen one of them just last month but i havent seen the other for about a year. i have been their friends since 3rd grade (im in 8th now). i want to stay friends and i know i'd have to make that extra effort to but sometimes it seems like they dont want to make the effort. should i still have faith and hold on to them or should i let go?
2007-03-07 15:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes, even after going to different elementary and middle schools, old friends hook up later, like in high school or afterward. If it isn't possible to hang out but you still want to hang on, you might just do things like send a Christmas card every year or a postcard in the summer that says "have a great summer" to leave the door open.
2007-03-07 15:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by callmeplayfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have email right? I left all my friends after high school, I went in the Army and was gone for 8 years. I didn't have time to write much, but when I got out of the Army, I looked them up and we've been friends ever since going on 30+ years. I know your young but good friends are hard to make, and even harder to lose
2007-03-07 23:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by George G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only in the 8th grade...so what if they dont want to make the effort. use the effort to make friends where u currently live. Besides i dont have friends now that i new since the 3rd grade and im 27. U'll make pllenty more friends, maybe even better friends
2007-03-07 23:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been there. Distance really makes it hard to stay in touch with people. But you gotta move on. Find some new people to hang out with. You gotta make a choice and stick to it even though its hard, and even though it means giving up the people that you love.
2007-03-07 23:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Galinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always email them or im them and there is always myspace. just hang on to them i mean being their friend doesnt mean u cant go out meet new friends the more the merrier so go hang on to them but meet new people
2007-03-08 00:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by LoryAnne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard I know,been there before,but you gotta move on.
2007-03-07 23:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you have to let go . in life we all do that
2007-03-08 01:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋