Okay, I am 21 years old. I have never had a real boyfriend or have really even connected emotionally with a guy....I have connected physically with a guy, but no emotional connection. I also feel like I connect with girls better and they are just always easier to talk to for me. I've never connected physically with a girl, but however, one time I had a sexual dream with a female friend of mine. I am so confused, does anyone know what this means? Am I lesbian?
2007-03-07 14:56:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I've actually gone through this topic in psychology. Well, just basically I learned that just because you have had a homosexual fantasy, it does not mean you are a homosexual. If you have a connection with girls better its completely normal because you're probably just good friends unless you feel some sexual attraction to her. In my opinion, you're straight. You jsut have problems getting into a serious heterosexual long term relationship.
2007-03-07 15:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. You just haven't found the right guy yet. If you connect to girls better its because you probably feel more comfortable with them at first sight. Before having a true boyfriend I was always too shy to talk to guys. Now that I have a boyfriend I feel much more comfortable talking to any guy. And about the whole dream thing....I have had dreams like that too but never in real life have i been attracted to a girl sexually. I can point out when a girl is pretty but not in a way that i want to be with her! I love men too much, they are the sexiest thing on the planet. Natural and just manly, oooH! But if you still have doubts maybe you should experiment with both. See what you like best i guess but i am certain you aren't.
2007-03-07 23:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean that you are a lesbian. There could be many explanations for it. The dream doesn't neccessarily mean that you are lesbian either. Dream analysts have found many meanings for homosexual dreams, and most of them are not because the dreamer is homosexual. Also, there might be some general problems with connecting with anyone, or there might be only problems connecting with men. There could also be problems with the men that you choose. It is hard to connect with someone who only wants you for sex. Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying that you are crazy. I highly reccommend seeing a psychologist. It sounds like there are deeper issues that you are dealing with, and a psychologist would be able to help you discover yourself more so you can answer that question for yourself. The last question on your post, "Am I lesbian?" is as if you want someone to pop up and tell you if you are or not. No one can do that for you. Only you can determine the answer to that.
2007-03-07 23:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe? Or maybe not? Your still pretty young, so I'd say just test the waters so to speak. Try going on a date with a girl? See if you click romantically. If not, well then try with a guy. Who knows? It's hard to pinpoint exactly what you want in life, so just relax and let the tide take you where ever.
2007-03-08 00:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Captian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a girl and love another girl so you are called as a lesbian.If you are a boy and you love another boy so you are called a gay.
Pysically a lesbian is a female but emotionly she feel like a male so she loves another girl.The difference lies on her feeling so it is called a psycho disease.You must consult to a psychologist. as soon as possible.
2007-03-07 23:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely.
2007-03-08 02:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by sophacles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, doesn't mean you are a lesbian. You will figure it out for yourself one day. Don't let others do it for you or talk you into what they think you are.
2007-03-07 22:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by cutesy76 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no i think it means u r bi curious..nuttin wrong with that , I think most girls have had a dream like that
2007-03-07 23:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by ceecee800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! Better get a rainbow air freshener for your car.
2007-03-07 23:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by poopy pants 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you crave to touch, taste, smell, lick, suck (sometimes spank, tie-up, whip) another woman, than that means you are a lesbian!
2007-03-07 23:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋