i wanna a baby really bad...i want a big family and so i wanna start now so i can have a lot...my bf wants a big family too..so how should i ask this??
2007-03-07 14:55:49 · 11 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Baby Names
it all depends on the background.. How long you been with your u boyfriend (more than a year than maybe its ok to tell him ) Im 18 and im pregnant. with a man i been with since i was 13 and he was 19... Think alot about it.. Do you have parents to support you? Does he? Is he triffeling? Don't think of 'omg i want a big family so i can grow old with my kids' no.. its not like that.. Do you have a stash? it cost $15 for infamil... Do you have that money? Do you know where to get WIC? Do you have a back up plan? Does he have a job? Can he hold a job? Well if your an hard headed girl and say **** it imma get pregnant anyways.. Get his social security # just so you can be real safe.. I really dont advise having a kid..Its cute when their infants but... After.... You already know..And also Imma dropout.. please stay in school and have YOUR BACK UP PLAN... Not alot of good jobs is taking GED now.. Get your diploma..
2007-03-07 17:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by blue_is_troo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious! Your body is not even prepared for childbirth at 15 and neither is your bank account. I hope you can realize your dream of a big, happy family one day, but having a baby at 15 with a boyfriend is just plain stupid, honey girl. You need to plan for anything worth having. Baby's spit up, cry, go poo poo and pee pee, get ear infections, and they don't come here all tied up in a pink and blue ribbons. What if , God forbid, your baby is mentally retarded or has a serious birth defect. Is your boyfriend going to be around for this? I hardly think so. I don't know why you are thinking this way at 15! You should be cheerleading, on a dance team, skateboarding, dreaming in the park on a sunny afternoon, giggling with your girlfriends, boy watching, reading teen magazines, and most importantly studying and getting ready for college. You are most likely to forget this current boyfriend before a baby could be conceived and born. Your feelings rise and fall, jump and flip flop around all over the place at your age. It's natural, because why??? You're 15!!! Snuggle up with a teddy bear. Better yet, take a real egg, and wrap it a little blanket. You have to take it with you everywhere you go.....everywhere....can't leave it alone for a second. Set your clock every two hours to get up and "feed" it. See how long it takes for you to drop it and watch it splatter.....because you will see your dreams and hopes for the future do the same thing unless you muster up some maturity and postpone this big family until you are old enough and ready to do so, hopefully with a husband, not some boyfriend, a husband who will be planning this family alongside you.
2007-03-08 08:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're soooo young... I still think of myself as a baby and I'm 23!!! Explore the world - you're limited as to what you can do with little ones...
Your dream may be to have a large family, but you'll need the life skills, a solid relationship with your partner and money to back that up.
2007-03-08 02:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to use protection or practice abstinence! Having a family now is too soon! It is important for your babies that you wait a little longer,how about starting at age 23 or so?
2007-03-08 04:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. You need to be a kid yourself, finish school, maybe college, travel, etc. How can you financially care for a child at age 15? Live your life first, that will make you a better Mom in the end.
2007-03-08 11:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by eeeeeeeeclipse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait i mean u can always have a big family just wait till u have a good job and a guy that will not walk out on u wen u are preg.
2007-03-08 10:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by robert b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish school before you have children. it costs a a lot having a big family, believe me i come from 8. and both my parents have well paid jobs.
2007-03-08 00:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! Live your life for at least another 4 years and then decide. Once you have children you live just for them, you have to forget yourself. You're far too young to do this to yourself now.
2007-03-08 04:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by jondavesnowy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl.. i would suggest you wait a couple of years before you start really thinking about family.. your too young at fifteen. explore your world before you settle down..
2007-03-08 00:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Adri 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to start a family with him right now.
although i would suggest you to wait for yrs later, but i can't stop you.
2007-03-08 01:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋