me and my mom are having a fight?

Question

we fight alot because i dont live with her so i dont know what to do about it plez help

Answer 1

talk with your dad or an adult you trust....
if you dont live with your mom you have a boundary already built in...so that there shouldn't be this much room for fights. If you start the conversation expecting one, you are bound to get a fight. Your mom isn't there everyday and probably has way too many questions, it may be annoying to you.....put yourself in her shoes. How is she supposed to find out whats going on with you? Is your mom well? I dont mean that condescending at all....talk with your dad...if she is just yelling all the time she may have a medical condition....then at least you would know its not your fault...good luck

Answer 2

If both of you always fight for every small reasons, then the crux of the problem are not those issues but a clash of personality or hatred that was accumulated over the years.

Sit down alone quietly and write down all those times you two had fought and for what reasons.
Study each case and write down each conclusion of what started the fight and why both do not see each other's views.
With all the conclusions, see if there is a pattern or subtle reason to the causes of the fights.
Invite her to discuss these causes and work from there onwards.

As parting shot, always be filial to your parents while they are still alive and not regret when they are gone.

Answer 3

Talk to your mom in a calm way and try to understand her. Sit down with her and tell her that you are (whatever your age is) and that it's time to let go, and that you love her, but your not 5 anymore. Be sure to listen to her, to.

Answer 4

just ask your mom if you two can sit down and talk calmly and rationally and tell her you dont like the fighting and that you would like to just talk about the things that are bothering each other without fighting or anything like that.....

Answer 5

don't undrstand your question but respect your mother at all times