ive been so upset about nothing and i lost a very close friend and my mom and i are fightin over dumb stuff and i want to have a boyfriend but i cant really find someone that can handle me and my life style and i dont know what to do i feel so dumb and pointless and i think its to late to fix things can someone help me out?
2007-03-07 14:25:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Slow down, get a relaxing hobby, talk to a counselor (not at school if your're in it). We all feel a little dumb and pointless at times. You can always make things better. You need to change your viewpoint on life.
2007-03-07 14:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad you both live under the same roof. Do not argue with your mother anymore. It only adds fuel to the fire when you both start complaining.
My suggestion is that you seek outside counseling immediately. Being a teenager in this time of life is pretty darn hard and demeaning.
From reading your question, I feel that you are much too young to have a boyfriend and should concentrate on your studies more. Friends come and go and that's life. If it's over death, I again encourage counseling. It is not healthy to hold it in and if not taken cared of you can live a life of apathy and dehumanization. You'll create a world of injustice that way.
I am sorry that your mother is not helping you, but if you get help elsewhere in counseling, you will be heard. And I apply this to adults who can't cope with life as well because they are bigger teenagers too.
2007-03-07 14:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to reevaluate what is important in your life. Forgiveness is a huge thing, and it's easier said than done, however your happiness will depend on how many you don't forgive, or if you don't forgive yourself. Boyfriends are nice to have for awhile, but appreciate this time that you have to enjoy your singleness and the freeness of not having that boyfriend right now. Your time will come, if you rush it, the romance, love, boyfriend, the whole idea of it will be tainted. Take time, and just breathe. Live, love, laugh, there's so much more to our lives than anger and want.
God Bless, GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-07 14:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you that a search for knowledge can't fix.
Start with Eric Fromme, "The Art of Loving"
Good Luck and God Bless You every moment of the day and night until and after you find yourself.
2007-03-07 14:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it up to your friend by getting them a very nice gift and being less stressed out.Try metitaditing instead of going wild and crazy.You and your mom should bound more.
2007-03-07 14:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out more, meet new people. Forget the past and move towards the future. Lot of friends out there, they can not find you, if you are not out there for them to notice.
2007-03-07 14:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by zack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since i dont really know the whole story I think you should go fix it now beause its never too late.
2007-03-07 14:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. And to be honest, a bf might not be too great right now....they just bring more stress anyway. Good luck to you, and please talk to someone. You will feel better if you get it all out!
2007-03-07 14:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
juss take it on step at a time
2007-03-07 14:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by darkpayaso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, you need some help ASAP. call your school guidance counselor
2007-03-07 14:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by nyckib 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋