Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out
2007-03-07 14:23:44 · 12 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?
2007-03-07 14:24:43 · update #1
Are you a masochist? Why are you stil contacting this jerk. If you can't read the signs he is probably married. He wanted to flirt a little in the gym but he don't really want to hang with you, or he can't because his wife won't let him
2007-03-07 14:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep, this guy sounds like a big game player. Give him a BIG MISS.
When a guy is into you, he will do all the chasing. Seems to me that he has someone else (probably a long time girlfriend) on the go and is stringing you along in case he feels like alittle variety. Just don't make anymore contact with him. If he calls you - you are really busy, could you make it next week?
2007-03-07 22:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by yutu34 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cant you tell....he probably moved on and met someone else. Rejection is a tough word...its not you..it him!!! You need to realise these things happen. Stop obsessing over him- its not healthy to stalk people, and it makes you look like a crazy in his eyes. You should have known from the beginning. Anyhow...why are you calling 'him'. Wait til he calls you..that will tell you everything you need to know, and then you wont be wasting your time worry about.."is he into me?"
2007-03-07 23:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by La-La 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like to play games, but let him come back to you if he wants to pursue a relationship. Don't chase a guy down! That's the biggest turn off. Don't call him, text him, or email him. Maybe he's trying to avoid not having to tell you that he isn't interested in you. Let him come to you. Leave him be!
2007-03-07 22:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a real player. Too much negativism.. i would advise you to leave him alone. If you are planning to give your heart to someone, please give it to someone that will respect, cherish, and love you for who you are. One who will be by your side through thick and thin and the ups and downs. As God knows your past, present and future, i suggest you talk to him and tell Him what you want. He knows best and will always be there to guide and protect you.
Be strong.
2007-03-07 22:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Flirtzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sign is clear: he is not too interested. C'mon, a lady calls him and wants to go out, and first thing he tells her is he HAS NO MONEY?? This is just so low-class. Forget him, find someone who has their sh1t together; this guy sounds like a flake.
2007-03-07 22:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was truly interested in you he'd be calling back, if he doesn't have money on the other hand he probably is feeling deflated. Either way he isn't ready for a relationship, move on.
2007-03-07 22:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him another chance, but have no expectations. Just take it for what it is. If it pans out, great! If not, oh well, onward and upward.
2007-03-07 22:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you are going to do is to call him again so that he will know that you are serious. And he maybe consider you.
2007-03-07 22:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Nicefriend 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, if he is ignoring you, dont bother chasing him, most guys only want sex, you can do better, take care.....Jesus loves you
2007-03-07 22:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋