Me and my boyfriend had sex, and im only 13 *yes it was prtected and yes I am a little to young..I do understand that.* well i didnt want ot take any chances nad i was late for my period*in fact i havnt had it yet* so i told my mom, she brung me to teh hospitle to do a blood sample, I was not pregnant, then today i had a papsmear* i think thats what its called..but that went well and I dont know if i should get the pill for b.c or the shot, I think the shot becasue pill ill probably forget, adn the shot is every 3 months what one??* but are town is small and romurs in high school and middle school are spreading about im pregnant and im telling everyone im not becasue im having a abortion*which im not, those are just nasty romurs, i've tryed to ignore them but there getting wrose, what hsould I do? please help.
2007-03-07 14:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by Skittles 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know this is easier said than done, but please dont take those nasty rumors to heart! Just keep a low profile for a while and sooner rather that later a new rumor will get "their" attention and you will be out of the spotlight.
As for the Birthcontrol: have a chat with your doctor to see what is right for you, but just be aware that the pill may stop your growth. Also, my doctor didnt put me on the pill until I was 15, though I was seeing him for heavy and extremely painful periods since I was 12, but he said I was too young and needed to give my body some more time to mature.
2007-03-07 20:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by kiara_niniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, this message is not to criticize you, but to hopefully make you aware at just how precious your childhood, your body, mind and soul is. Judging by your question, you could really stand to pay less attention to boyfriends, rumors, and birth control, and more attention to your studies. Skittles, you have all the time in the world to be grown...trust me, enjoy your innocence. Get more involved in your school and your community... it will prove to more positive. It is not to late, you have experimented now move on. Would you answer this question for me...was it worth it? The pregnancy scare, the pap smear, the rumors. You probably won't be able to stop the rumors, but, people talked about Jesus Christ, so let them talk. You have got to believe in yourself and don't let anyone bring you down or steal your joy. If you have 10 people hating on you now, figure a way that you have 20 people hating by the end of the year, but only in a positive way. You can definitely achieve that by becoming a productive member of society and not a statistic. No one is perfect, if someone says that they are, they are lying...just love yourself and keep it moving.
2007-03-07 15:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bigdiva77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As u seem to have already realised your mistake, there is no more need to advise you. As for the rumours, they will continue until a new issue pops up and such issues will always keep popping up. Keep a low profile. Maintain your self-respect and do not let people bad-mouth u. If someone does it, try avoiding them but do not fight. This will pass over and very soon too. Concentrate on your studies and once u become interested and start producing results in your studies, people will forget the mistakes u have done. Work is the only solution. Good luck. God be with u.
2007-03-07 14:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by shgo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately these things happen...people spread rumors that i was a lesbian and had sex with my friend in the bathroom when really i was holding her hair back while she puked....just ignore it becuase it doesnt make them any better of a person for saying those things and in a little bit people will forget and it will be kinda obvious that your not! as for the pill or shot, the dr will probably suggest one based on your body and sometimes it takes two or three times to find the right birth control...i hope i helped
2007-03-07 14:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell anyone you are having an abortion if i uderstood that right cause then yes ppl will accuse you of being pregnant cause they will think you are just tell ppl no im not pregnant and if you dont beleive me than get over it i guess you will find out when im not getting fat soon but just ignore them there are tons of cases like that kids in school are cruel and they like to do things like that so it will be ok but yes i know that you know you are way to young to be having sex. you are sex is for ppl who r in love.
2007-03-07 14:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
judging from the way you write i assume you are pretty stupid so this probably won't help you, I think it might be a little over your head. you say you can't take the rumors about you being pregnant, yet you want to get birth control, meaning you want to continue having sex. WHY DONT YOU STOP HAVING SEX. YOU ARE 13 YEARS OLD. YOU ARE NOT A GROWN *** WOMAN. YOU DONT NEED BIRTH CONTROL YOU SHOULD STILL BE A VIRGIN. There is a word for girls like you where i am from, it is SLUT. Also, why are you telling people you are having an abortion if you arent pregnant, it sounds like you want attention to me. How could someone as immature as you ever think you are ready to have sex. you do know that having sex makes babies. i would hate to think that someone like you was actually raising a child. YOU are what is wrong with the world these days.
2007-03-07 14:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
I think what you should do is tell someone maybe your counselor because that is really bad especially in a small town. Well wear tight close to show them that your not pregnant and you know tell your friends to help you out believe me if their your true friends they'll have your back.
2007-03-07 14:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by shelly89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing really? i know its hard being 13.. but it will end soon. plus this is a good thing in a way cause ull see who ur friends really are.. they will stick w u and plus ull see if ur bf really love you... cause if hell stick to u while all this is happening than he really loves u... it will be over.. i mean u guys are teenagers.. some other thing will come out in like a week or so...
2007-03-07 14:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by sony v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed, now lie in it. You got just what you asked for, and your "Boy friend" should be in jail. There are no age restrictions on being a SL*T. And, you deserve what you got. AND the Doctor that is giving birth control should also be in jail. And, you deserve what come to you in the future. You will get no sympathy from me. Keep your legs closed and maybe this will blow over.
2007-03-07 14:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Pick up the attitude of: F*@k what people think!!! I know me!!!
Works for me... daily...
2007-03-07 14:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋