for someone my age,13, to start feeling like u want to be sexual active? Should i wait until marriage?or Should i wait until im older?
2007-03-07 14:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It's normal to feel that way, but do not act on it until you are older. The best would be to hold out until marriage, but if not wait until you are a legal adult. Not only will you be more emotionally ready, but your body will be ready physically. For the sake of all the teens who get pregnant or get STDs please wait.
2007-03-07 15:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by d4cav_dragoons_wife84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait. It is normal to feel the feeling you are having. But you have a lot more things ahead of you in life than just sex. Feelings like this at this age--13. Is hormones. Think about it which Im sure you are still in middle school. You have dances, and fun times with friends. High school you have pep rallies, prom, grad night, etc. Honey, you are much to young to be sexually active with any boy now. Join some clubs at school. Get together with friends. Have fun. This is the age. Sweety, take care and be safe. Please take my advice. Wait. You will find your time one day, now is not the time. Girl, have fun doing girly things! Walk the mall with friends. Watch movies. If you like a boy then I say its okay to give a little kiss. But nothing more than that my opinion as a woman. Youre just a girl.
2007-03-07 22:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. At around age 12 the body starts changing and when u get ur period hormones make u feel kind of sexual. My advise to u is to think about STDs and pregnancy issues before u decide to become sexually active. Also think that at age 13 ur still kind of a kid and sex it's no kid issue. You will naturally mature and the time will be right. Remember there is a time for everything in life.
2007-03-07 22:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by ynkoknyta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until your older and able to make a informed decision. It isn't something to rush into. 13 is way too young I think those feelings are normal but remeber that sex is better when it is with someone you really care about and when you are mature enough
2007-03-07 22:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all reach sexual maturity at different ages, however the true question is are you emotionally mature enough to begin having sexual relationships. The answer of course, is only you know, my advice to you would be to wait. There is no good reason on earth to give it up early, not to mention all the things that could happen to adversely effect your life, pregnancy, disease, etc....
2007-03-07 22:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by dragondancer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 is an age when you might start being attracted that way to the opposite sex but PLEASE do not have sex yet...you are way too young. If you get pregnant or get someone pregnant, it will change your life forever! No protection is 100% except abstinence. Have fun going to the movies and even enjoy a kiss but you're way too young to have sex.
2007-03-07 22:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Pam R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are just getting hormones...wait a bit...until your older...i have a friend that just had sex with a guy..shes fifteen and he just broke up with her and shes a wreck..even suicidal...so even sex has baggage that comes with it so the older you are the better it is because you will be more prepared for the emotional roller coaster that goes a long with it...if you wait til your married you can treasure it with that one person for the rest of your life and it will be more special
2007-03-07 22:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by miranda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal, but my advise to you will be to wait until marriage
or at least until you are 18 + when you can take responsibilities for the consequences
But whatever age that you choose to start having sex please
use Birth control as well as condom
and talk to your parents first
Take care & God Bless
2007-03-07 22:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal in ur age to think about sex....it is because of harmouns...
if take my point of view about ur sexual activity...then u should hold ur self till to ur marriage...
i did this...and u know what i feel after marriage...i feel that i got the really right person for me...whcih not only cares & loves about me alotz but really respect my self....(as i do his...)
so choice is urs...
what ever u choose just be care ful about ur self and respect...
Good Luck
2007-03-07 23:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Good Wisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to wait until your married, but please wait until you're older. you don't want to be a mom at 15, do you?? it's hard enough now when i'm 25...
keep your innocence...
2007-03-07 22:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋