when my friend came to the door the other day, i noticed she was bigger which i have NO problem with at all but for some reason i had us go around a different way of the house because i didn't know what my step dad would think. I feel so guilty and selfish to be her friend. I mean i would go to the mall and stuff with her. I have with someone else who was bigger. I did the same thing once to a other friend when i was like 13 and i can't believe i did it the other night. It can't be because i am embarrassed because i brought her outside when my grandfather was here and he said hi and everything. Man, i don't know what to do! but i hate this guilt feeling! I know my step dad wouldn't have said anything ..but you wonder what people would think. She is coming over tomorrow and i keep obsessing over "what if she knew" and that i feel like a bad friend.
2007-03-07 13:59:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
should i tell her?
2007-03-07 14:10:54 · update #1
I don't understand a crap about your question.
2007-03-07 14:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by donniedragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, must be a teenage thing. I don't understand your reasoning on this. Do not say anything to her about it, though. You will hurt her feelings. Just try to forget about it and remember why you are friends. You can't feel guilty about honest feelings that you had. BUT...if you do feel guilty than you probably think that you are wrong. That's a good thing! Use that guilt to change your ways.
2007-03-07 14:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by cutesy76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about what is important to you. You feel bad because you know it's not right to feel that way. Better listen to that little voice. That's God.
2007-03-07 14:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It replaced into her determination to do it. you could no longer carry your self in charge for her possibilities. as nicely she replaced into curious of something and maybe this could in simple terms coach her much extra explanation why she would have the capacity to no longer and should no longer do it.
2016-11-23 14:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo i mad lucky cause my friend naver camed to my house but i now how u feel is bad
2007-03-07 14:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by maysa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her as your friend, then keep on ok.
2007-03-07 14:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Nicefriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if shes bigger or not?
Shes your friend then, yup, you should not be embarassed.
Ur stepfdad is jerk oromething? Why u worried wat he thinks about ur friends size
2007-03-07 14:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋