I’m graduating high school this year. I have had a lot of really bad experiences that I would like to forget. My question is…I’m curious to know if the way I am acting is normal because I’m a bit concerned for myself. I know that might sound strange but…I’ve pretty much cut off communication with a lot of my friends. The only people I really talk to now are my friends that are going to be attending the same college as me. Sadly enough many of them don’t attend the same high school as me. I’ve deleted a lot of friend’s phone numbers because I feel if my friends want to see me they will call me. I don’t know why I am acting the way I am it’s really unintentional but I’m curious to know if this is a normal thing that everyone goes through just cutting off communication with friends and not talking to them...
2007-03-07 13:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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A reason I have cut off ties with my one friend is because I feel she has issues. She comes over to my house eats whatever she pleases without asking and takes whatever she pleases without asking. She has made my family make her separate meals because she doesn’t like what they cooked. She has even urinated in my shower! (no lie) And the main reason is because she gets angry easily. She has kicked me on numerous different occasions and recently punched me in the face because I made a comment towards her that offended her. I really felt a lot of sympathy for her at one time. People treated her badly. But now I'm not sure anymore. I'm not sure if the reason I'm not associating with her is because so many people have problems with her OR if it's just because I've realized on my own the issues that she really does have.
2007-03-07 13:44:17 · update #1
Another friend i have recently cut off ties with i feel i did for the right reason. She had two big house parties and refused to invite me. She told me straight to my face she would not invite me because a few of her friends "hated me" and she didn't want them not to show up so she felt it would be better for me and her just to hang out separate then invite me to her party. I'm sorry 2 of her parties. She has done this every year she has one big party since 7th grade and she has been doing this to me every year refusing to invite me because she's afraid of what other people will think of her. She's so nice to me when it's just her and I or her and MY FRIENDS but when she see's me around and she's with other people she totally ignores me
2007-03-07 13:44:46 · update #2
I would not regards those you mentioned as friends rather I 'd call them classmates or schoolmates. Anyways, you seemed to have not got a real friend all this while and I think you need to go out more often to socialise and get to know people. The idea of making new friends can help you "open your world" and can make you aware that there are people alot worse than you. I have been there myself. So try it and see it for yourself. Good luck.
2007-03-07 13:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you are getting ready to move on in your life and you know that those friends will be going on with their life too. It could just be a way of letting go. However, the two girls you described need to be left behind. They are rude and selfish and you can do better. Good luck in college. Your life is about to change for the better. You go girl!!!!1
2007-03-07 21:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just asked your self are they true friends have been there for the tick and thin if your answer is yes e-mail them or drop them a letter. Is always nice to know you have some one out there for you.
2007-03-07 22:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Unlucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel that you are superior to everyone, and everyone should follow you . This is the reason internally and if someone go againt your mentality you wish to cutoff them.The solution for this is you try to be always with friends, share your feelings if you do so they also share with you and you can easily communicate with everyone.
2007-03-07 21:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I thought that I was strange too. It's ok, everyone has their own personalities. Don't mind it.
2007-03-07 21:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by pikachu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,make new friends that are nice. Don't mind the other friends who doesn't care about you.
2007-03-07 21:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by justine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called PMS. Wait a week, and you'll be sane again.
2007-03-07 21:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Restless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋