Friend saves herself till marriage. She tells husband where will u find a gal like me (who has saved herself). Instead of he being lovey dovey abt it he says in escort service can get any girl. I think this is the biggest humiliation a woman who saved herself can get. She cannot forget and forgive this humiliation. What do you think of his comment? What would you have done? Do you blame her for asking him that or you feel he was wrong?
2007-03-07 13:19:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was wrong, he was very rude and insensitive to her feelings and does not respect her at all. He does not deserve someone like her. One has to believe that he has used escort services before, or maybe not if he thinks they can find him a virgin. An escort service is no better than a whorehouse in most cases, the girls are just as much a prostitute as the women who walk the streets. I am so sorry she has to suffer with such an insensitive jerk.
2007-03-07 13:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, this is what she gets for being so full of herself. What she was implying is that she's somehow better than the other women out there (because she "saved" herself); what he's was implying is to knock it off and stop being such a prude.
I agree with the husband on this one, sorry. She needs to get a grip on reality; being a stick in the mud is nothing to be proud of.
2007-03-07 22:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are that uncaring or stupid. Many men would find it an honor to find a woman with that much self respect and appreciate the gift that she was offering to him. Your friend is not wrong in her anger and and in telling him she did so to show him she wanted to give a special gift that most men today will never see. Your friend has a right to be proud and he is nothing but a jackass.
2007-03-07 21:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it's great that your friend saved herself until marriage, but she should have done it for herself, not her man. Virginity is not the most important thing to most men. Saving yourself for marriage is something you do out of respect for your self, your body, etc... Don't do it just to score points with men.
2007-03-07 21:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by true blue 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He was being a jerk most guys say things they dont mean but guess what they do hurt. There arent to many girls that do maintain their virginity til they are married he doent know how special she is it shows that she is strong willed.No i dont blame here for asking the jerk wont realize what he has til it is gone.
2007-03-07 21:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by christina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is chasing the wrong man.
I know women today don't like boring (want only one woman men).A woman should save herself for a man that wants only one woman.
2007-03-07 21:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her husband is an insensitive numskull ! What the heck is he thinking ? Myself I would have been all over her like white on rice....maybe even a little worshiping ?...LOL...she had every right in the world to ask what in the wide world of sports was going on in his mind and HE...needs to put on the knee pads and ....crawl to her and beg her to accept his gift ( diamonds, car, ? ) and to bestow her forgiveness on him....unless she is beyond giving it.
2007-03-07 21:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like stupid remarks like that, BUT, saving yourself was her decision, I don't think many guys feel that it's a big deal.
I think saving yourself for marriage is not a good idea, because what if the two of you don't work well together, then you have a lifetime of bad sex:(
2007-03-07 21:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can't seriously make me believe that this guy hasn't treated you like garbage before....and now you want everyone to think that suddenly after being so caring all the time this is the answer you got?
You knew what you bargained for when you married him....right?
2007-03-07 21:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by jackofonetrade 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
insensitive,clueless uncaring,unfeeling. liitle more than the dirt we were created from. do you feel better now?
2007-03-07 21:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋