My boyfriend and I live together and he will say he'll be home from school or with friends at a much later time than he does come home. He will say he'll be home at 10pm and then when I'm home alone he opens the door really quickly at like 8pm and says "Oh forgot my calculator". I'm not cheating on him but it feels like he's trying to catch me doing something wrong. He does this 2 times a week. What's this all about?
2007-03-07 13:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You should communicate this to him. Sounds fishy .. either way find what is best for you.
Good luck.
2007-03-07 13:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does seem that he thinks you are up to no good. It's weird that he doesn't trust you - especially if you have given him no cause to.
Maybe he is a little insecure about himself and thinks that you will do something but I'm not sure how persistent you can be in showing him that you aren't.
The only thing I can think of is if you go out with him when he goes out and show him what it's like. My friend is going through the same thing at the moment - her boy is bad - she just talks to him - maybe try that.
2007-03-07 14:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the other people said... if you stay this will become like a gay after-school special. Soon he will be checking up on your bank accounts and cell phone bills. Run, don't walk.
2007-03-07 13:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it--he doesn't trust you. I also agree with the folks who said it will get worse.
2007-03-07 13:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't trust you...is this the way you want to live? Dump him quickly.
2007-03-07 13:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like HE has issues. You'll have to ask him, to find out what's going on.
2007-03-09 00:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, my exs do the same thing...they dont think u r cheating but do it just in case u know...i tihnk it shows he loves u a lot, he just doesnt want to get hurt
2007-03-07 13:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Dump him - he's a controller. It will get worse.
2007-03-07 13:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Skeff 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to him about this and how you feel.
2007-03-07 15:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you askin us for? Ask him. Hes the only one who knows the answer.
2007-03-07 13:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus W. 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋