I cant tell if i lover her or if i just need her?

Question

what is the difference? I just cant figure out how i feel?

Answer 1

First you maybe need some time away to figure out.

Sometime you need to get away the problem so we can see the problem mpre clearly

In my opinion you don't seem to love her.

You would not ask the question if you really love her...

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Love is the feeling that have when you feel a strong connection and attraction to someone. This feeling comes and goes and comes and goes the longer that a relationship continues. Need is the psychological restraint that develops and makes you feel as though you can't complete a task without a particular thing or person. Realistically, if she left you tommorrow you wouldn't die and eventually you would no longer be hurt. You may love her but you don't need her. The real question is "are you committed to her?" Committment and the feeling of wellbeing that you get when you are around someone is what you should base a long term relationship on. Forget love and need. If you don't have committment then it's not worth it.

Answer 3

When you love someone it means that you would do anything for her. For example you give your life to up for her. Then if you don't feel that way then all your doin' is wanting her to make you feel like you need her to make you feel whole.

Answer 4

I dont think there is much of a difference. When you love someone you NEED them.

Answer 5

Do you care more about her happiness than your own? If you do, you love her. If you don't, you just need her.

Answer 6

if you love her you would not be asking so you just must be using her. you should never question love...