well i have this gf she just came out the closet and stuff and i'm the first girl she's ever been with. well, before she was with me she was with my friend luis and was head over heels for him they were together for a year. i can tell that she was in love with him and now they just started all over like a frienship and nothing more i hope, she's been hugging, touching, and playing around with him alot i dont know if i'm just jealous or paranoid but i have a bad feeling that she isn't really gay and she's just using me to make him jealous. what do you think?
2007-03-07 12:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by KraZiiWun=D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
be thankful
2007-03-15 01:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off a little bit so in case you are not her #1 you won't get hurt so badly. She may be trying to make him jealous. She may not really be over him. She may be exploring her sexual feelings. She doesn't need to be all over him if their sexual relationship is over. Give her a little space and let her do what she has to--- without you getting hurt. My best
2007-03-15 13:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your right ! She might have gotten with you cause she knew he would like the idea of two women being together . That's why he is playing around with her now . She knows why ! Think about this relationship before you get hurt . Good Luck !!!
2007-03-07 13:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's time for you to grow up. Quit hanging out with children, or adults who act like children.
Honestly, I am amazed to read a question like yours on here. I suspect that you're Pulling our legs?
2007-03-15 11:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right in your belief that she may be using you, but it may be several other things. She may not be "gay" but she may be "Bi". Many gay women refuse to accept this possibility since they feel that "Bi" shows a lack of commitment to the gay lifestyle they experience.
Also, remember: If she has just come out and you are her first lover ( woman ), you are setting the tone for the rest of her life. Try and be trusting and let her come to know herself. If its meant to be...fine. But if not, don't let this be the cause of great heartache for all concerned.
2007-03-07 13:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by jdinkorea 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Um... I know what you mean. Try and see if she is. If she holds hands ect not just in public but also when your alone and nobodies around. She may just not be over him or... she's ******* you over.
2007-03-15 11:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ashers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes bisexual not lesbian, i mean she might still have feelings for this guy, but if you are the first girl she hs been with i would question her a lil
2007-03-07 12:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by abby_borg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bye Bye Bye bisexual
2007-03-14 17:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by front door 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOT GAY!!! have fun dont get ur heart involved
2007-03-14 10:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by ggwassent 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋