I'm going to take a girl's virginity soon, I was wondering if I should pretty much just stop when I climax or try to make her do so as well (if possible)?
2007-03-07 12:45:04 · 14 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it seems the girls are saying no. it is not my first time, but the first girls virginity i took i was clueless, and the others ive had sex with have done it before me. so pretty much the legit answers are saying have sex and then eat her out...?
2007-03-07 13:00:13 · update #1
it seems the girls are saying no. it is not my first time, but the first girls virginity i took i was clueless, and the others ive had sex with have done it before me. so pretty much the legit answers are saying have sex and then eat her out...?
2007-03-07 13:00:14 · update #2
im also very tall and i wear a magnum condom.... not trying brag (my identity isnt revealed or anything) but shes like 5'4, will that factor into her being less likely to climax?
2007-03-07 13:02:40 · update #3
so you guys are saying eat her out first and then have sex. is she still gonna wanna have it? she is pretty scared of the pain, not to sound like a jackass but i dont want her to back out when she is satisfied...
2007-03-07 13:30:59 · update #4
i am 18. i have had sex with other girls. when i said just stop when i climax or try to satisfy the girl i meant as in should i try to hold it in for her or just "go" whenever im ready.
2007-03-07 16:40:32 · update #5
You may want to try to focus on her climax during foreplay. She will be more lubricated for actual intercourse and probably more easily able to enjoy it at that point. I don't know if first timers experience orgasm...I think considering the stress and pain it may be unlikely. I didn't the first time, but I did through the foreplay.
2007-03-07 12:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First Time Female Orgasm
2016-10-14 01:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by mcquilkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she might be in so much pain that you may not even get to climax. Just wanted to prepare you for that. You might end up with um....well, I'll just say it...blue balls!
So, this must be your first time too since you are not aware that after you climax you will be pretty much useless in that special region of yours!!
Hmmm...are you young too. It is so hard to respond to this thinking that. What in the world can a person say to persuade another to wait until they are older. Nothing I guess. It is just one of those things where the majority of those who do it young regret it and the majority of those who wait are always glad you did. Too bad that sometimes we make decisions so young that affect the rest of our lives.
Just know that it is very painful for the girl. DO NOT force it. For some girls it can take more than a few tries over the course of a week before she can feel comfortable.
I really hope that you are an adult.
2007-03-07 16:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Triplescoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not read the others answers but here is the truth.
The answer is yes, but you have to be very gentle and realy take your time.
The female must be fully aroused and I mean smokin.
work around the entrance untill the juices realy start flowing and then very slowly and easily and rythmically start working it in.
Like maybe gaining an 1/8 inch every tenth thrust.
If the chick is realy into it her muscles with slowly relax allowing you further and further in.
Resist the urge to just sink it to the hlit cause that will spoil the whole thing.
Chances are you'll never get it in all the way like this before you lose it. , but it's worth it if you realy love her.
If you dont , then you shouoldnt be with her anyway.
Also , I know you wont listen , because i wouldnt have..
But it realy is best if you wait till your married.
I sure wish I had, cause then i wouldnt be old and alone now.
Oh, and btw some chicks just never get off, no matter what yah do......
2007-03-07 15:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by smokentoad 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ya wanna give her an orgasm by inercourse....boy it aint happening. depending on the girl, it could be really painfull for her. before inercourse- eat her out, alot of girls only experience an orgasm when there's clitoral stimulation. so try that before you have sex. remember to use a rubber
2007-03-07 13:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by {mish d!tsy [[&]]mi empty head} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of foreplay, and have her climax before you even penetrate her. That will make it a more enjoyable experience for both of you.
2007-03-07 13:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make her reach climax. If that's going to be her first time make it as good as possible, so she will never forget it.
2007-03-07 12:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
only stop if you want everyone to know that you cant make a girl climax and yes its possible if yoyu know what to do go to seductioninsider.com for help
2007-03-07 12:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl having sex for the first time will not have an orgasm. She will be too sore to have one.
I'm going by my first time.
2007-03-07 12:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as if she'd be taking yours aswell.
You probably won't do so hot once you've finished, so you'd need a break. During that break there's always the chance of pleasing her other ways.
2007-03-07 12:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by I Know Nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋