I lied to my boyfriend and told him I wasnt a virgin(which is not true). If we have sex,can I hide the fact that Im a virgin or will the pain be too bad. Dont tell me I should tell him the truth cuz Im too embarrassed.
2007-03-07 12:41:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
if your partner is rough you will feel pain
if your partner is experienced he willl sense
that you havent had sex before and will be gentle
with you so that your first experience is a good one
go with the flow
2007-03-07 12:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, every women is different so the pain varies. Some women bleed the first time while others don't bleed at all. But having sex for the first time is uncomfortable and a bit painful especially if the guy isn't gentle. Honestly, you should tell your boyfriend that you are a virgin so he can meet your needs according. He will handle you gently and easier instead of rough which will cause discomfort. Remember protection, lots of foreplay, and lubricant. If you are not ready to tell him the truth, chances are you are not ready for sex.
2007-03-07 21:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex hurts the first time. In my case it hurt a lot. Most of my friends did too. There is usually blood, too. Sometimes just a little, but with me and a lot of my friends it was more like a heavy period for about 3 days.
It's a bad mistake to lie and say you aren't a virgin. He probably won't go very slow or be as gentle and it will hurt like hell....think scream. Chances are you won't enjoy sex like that.
Tell him the truth. Use lots of KY Jelly a condom and a lot of foreplay.
2007-03-07 21:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by txharleygirl1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all... why did you lie to your boyfriend and not be honest? The first part of a relationship you should be open and honest and your first time should be with someone you really love and care about. So why dont you just be honest with him and let him know, he would understand if he truly loves you and he will make sure to be gentle not agressive to hurt you in any way. But I am sure if you went ahead without telling him he will either think you suck in bed or have never had sex before. So if you two really love each other just be honest with him. Good luck!
2007-03-07 20:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by butterflycassandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth. That way, he will be more gentle.
I told the guy I was with the first time that I was a virgin. He made sure we had plenty of foreplay, and even asked if I was ready before he penetrated me. It made for a very enjoyable first time.
2007-03-07 21:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does hurt. You won't be able to hide it.
I would be honest with your boyfriend. If he finds out later that you lied, you will lose him. That will be worse than being embarrassed.
2007-03-07 20:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well you should tell him anyways.
you sound too young.
If you're all freaked out about pain and you can't even tell him the truth, then you're not ready.
you're not ready.
2007-03-11 20:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it shouldnt hurt bad enough for you to cry, but he can tell that you were a virgin after sex if your vagina starts to bleed (popping the cerry).
2007-03-07 20:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have fingerd ur self or use tampons you might have already "popped ur cherry"
thats what happened 2 me.
my 1st time didnt hurt at all.
uhh it was great.
2007-03-07 21:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by foreverbabe819 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it dose .
2007-03-07 21:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Wicca_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋