2007-03-07 12:24:09 · 23 answers · asked by londam2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her to can it or she'll be nagging alone!
2007-03-07 13:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by jacquie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen I am a wife and i do not nag--when she nags--tune her out and think of something else or walk away if you can, when she calms down and stops nagging-and trying to control you--tell her this is the time you will listen but only when she acts respectful first. she has to learn not to sweat the small stuff. Bible says the nagging wife is like a constant drip of water.
2007-03-07 20:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey there buddy, She is looking for attention. I'd be welling to bet that ya'll don't spend a lot of time together or the both of you are always busy. You need to spend more time with her and at home. Listen to her and try to go above and beyond to fulfill her needs. The worst that could happen is she sees that your really trying and remember way your her husband. You know that if she is happy your happy. Remember, she is your wife and your best friend. She is the most important person in the world to you and is worth it. So, give it a try and see what happens.
From one guy to another, Good Luck there Buddy.
2007-03-07 20:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by SA41TX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason she nags is because you aren't moving quickly enough. if she asks you to do something, do it immediately or she will continue to ask (this is what you call nagging) Just get it over with so she has no reason to harass you until you do the dishes or take out the trash or whatever. She thinks the more she asks the quicker it will happen. The best thing to do is do what you promise, follow through on what you say!
2007-03-07 20:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All you can control is YOUR part in the marriage. What are you doing to help or harm the relationship? do you give her reasons to be overbearing & nag? My guess is if you look at yourself HONESTLY you'll probably begin to get at the root of the issues. The problem is that we are always so busy pointing out others faults we forget to consider our part in it.
2007-03-07 20:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a good, long look at yourself. Is she nagging you about things you should have done or should be doing? Do you constantly tell her you will do something but never get around to it? Do you tell her things just to shut her up?
2007-03-07 21:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start listening to what she has to say once in a while and who knows maybe the nagging will calm down and even quit someday.
2007-03-07 20:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get mr peabody's way back machine go back to the 1930's were men ruled the house and slap the crap out of her. just kidding dont know if you find out an answer that doesnt blame you for her nagging tell me
2007-03-07 22:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by I race cars 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shape up or ship out. Quit giving her a reason to nag.
2007-03-07 20:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My guess is she showed nagginess toward you well before you got married ... unless you foolishly married too quickly.
So you'll have to deal w her the way she is and try not to get on her bad side, or if you don't have kids, you can leave.
Couples' therapy is another option w/no guarantee that she'll change.
2007-03-07 20:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋