Okay where do I start. This woman has been stalking me for about a year now. At first, I did not mind it, now I a efin afraid of her. She has been following me around even more. Now she knows where I live, where I hang out, what kind of car I have, everything.She even somehow knows my cell phone number!She now had the teacher in one of my classes move her next to me. She is telling all of her friends we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I said it was not true and now she's saying I had sex with her. Since I am trying to disprove that, she has started cutting herself. She is threatning to commit suicide and make it look I was responsible. Now she finds out about my real girlfriend. Now she threatens if I am not her boyfriend she will call police on my family and girlfriend framing them for something they did not do. Now she has gone far enough saying she wants to kill my family and friends. She has reached the point of "Fatal Attraction" crazy to make a long story short. What should I do?
2007-03-07 12:22:30 · 13 answers · asked by King Kris 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This girl is trouble.
You are NOT responsible for her head games. She is sick and has a definite personality disorder.
I would tell her to stop or you will phone the cops and get a restraining order against her. Then do it. If nothing else, if she goes over the edge, you have official record of your actions against her. Protect yourself in that fashion.
Tell everyone involved. Even her parents. They need to know what their daughter is up to.
You do not mention your age but I would also speak to school authorities and see what support they can offer you. You should not be forced to sit near her and have to deal with her. Tell them all including the suicide threats and the cutting. Perhaps that will open a few eyes and she will get some help. Suicide threats are not ignored by any means.
So, there you go. Good luck. It won't be easy but you know what you have to do.
2007-03-07 12:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 09:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having all of these problems I am sure you have called the police so you should have police reports enough to apply for a protective order. This way she has to remain 100 ys from you and have no contact whatsoever. You should also speak to someone with authority at your school concerning the matter. Best of luck!
2007-03-07 12:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, talk to counselors at school, file a restraining order... you and your g/f... Make as big a paper trail as you can, and bring as much attention to it as you can. The girl obviously needs help, and the school counselors will get a hold of her parents and help her get the help she needs.
Please do not drop this matter, kids with emotional problems are dangerous
2007-03-07 12:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember how fatal attraction ended. Smith&Wesson may be the treatment. All jokes aside, file a restraining order. You probably should have not slept with her. Document everything, if she sends you notes written in her blood that should be enough evidence to keep you out of trouble if she offs herself. Good luck.
2007-03-07 12:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it is time to talk to the police about her threats and get a restraining order. Have absolutely no contact with her.
2007-03-07 12:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned school so I assume you are a minor..I suggest you go to your parents I know that sounds lame, but it will be proof that you are concerned for your welfare. Then I suggest you write down every incident you can think of where you had any contact with her, be as detailed as possible, and cite as many times as you can when she was acting inappropriate. Then you might need to have the school contact her parents. She sounds very mentally disturbed and she needs help asap.
2007-03-07 12:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. This is now out of your hands, but don't worry about being framed by her. Any psychologist could tell that she's nuts and you'd get off.
2007-03-07 12:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by thelivingdaylights16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proactive, and you tell the police first and get a restraining order. You tell your girlfriend to do the same. You can no longer ignore this, someone will get hurt.
2007-03-07 12:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police - NOW. Tell them what's happening - Then tell your teachers, your parents, her parents, and especially your girlfriend. If she is threatening suicide, I think you and your girlfriend are in a lot of danger. Be wary of her. She's dangerous.
2007-03-07 12:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋