When ever i talk to my friends, like tell them something important or something, they just say oh ok then just keep talking about what ever they want to talk about, and it makes me feel really mad and sad and like i told them something really important and they didnt even care and i always listen to them and ask questions and do stuff for them but they never do stuff for me or listen or anything. But one of them did give me some of her lunch to me when i didnt have anything to eat. What should i do?
2007-03-07 12:15:07 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The girl who gave you her lunch when you had nothing was a true friend. The others that dont listen to you arent. If you do stuff for them and they dont return the favor, their just too self-centered to even think. True friends return favors, untrue friends dont care. Be wise on picking your friends. Something, someday, can be REALLY important and you need there help, dont go to them if you know they wont care. Go to, other SPECIAL friends. Like the girl that gave you her lucnh. Making friends is the BEST. Even though its hard.
2007-03-15 12:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by GorgeousGal10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good LuckI think you should get a new set of friends because it seems they only use you to their conveniences. I think that you deserve friends that will share mutual respect and friendliness towards you. I think that they might not actually want to be your friends and they can't or just won't tell you. I think you should go find some that can appreciate you because although one may have did something good, think of all the things you have done for all of them and how many times the goodness was returned. Be your own person and grow stronger from this experience.Good Luck.
2007-03-15 19:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well frm my own experience even i have been a good friend by listening to other ppl's probs and trying to help them as much as possible.but wen it's my turn i find noone is available to help me out or listen..you know what i did i stopped being available to them...made a couple of new friends instead (didnt forget my old mates mind - well not completely) it took a little bit of time but they soon started calling and asking how i am and worry abt me for a change.and thats wen they started taking note that i do exist and 1 major thing the friends that realised i had disappeared and looked for me i now know that they are my friends.
2007-03-15 18:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by tamzin x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing also, but with some people.....I would snap at them and tell them to listen
2007-03-15 16:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Harts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm, well im in the popular group at school and when we do that to another person it sometimes means.... "mmm, dont you get it we dont want you here!" Try finding other friends little by little but dont just tell ur old friends "bye im not ur friend anymore" you will be a loner.... find other friends and when you have like maybe 10 say "*** YOU ***** I DONT NEED YOU ANYMORE "
AND YOU WILL LIVE HAPILLY EVER AFTER
2007-03-15 15:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jesse M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find some new friends. It sounds to me like you are not really their friend. They are just letting you hang around them to do things for them. Open your eyes.
2007-03-07 20:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends are like that too. my advice? do the same thing right back! next time they come to you for help, give them the brush off. it'll make them realize what they've been doing, and it'll make you feel hella good lmao. hope that helps =P
2007-03-07 20:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by lajolla_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh sounds like they want to just be "hi&bye" friends with you. this happened to me too. just find new friends and if they come crying back to you ; treat them the way they treated you. because friends shouldnt be undependable & friends should always listen to you.
2007-03-07 20:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that should prove 2 u who your real friends are and who u can trust and who u cant if u want 2 talk tx us ok good luck.
2007-03-15 18:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by venom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is when they talk you should walk away from them and show them how you feel when they don't listen to you no matter how hard it hurts
2007-03-15 19:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Spongebob Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋