well i'm in 8th grade and 2 of my friends stop talking to me. they use to say "hi" to me in the hall way and other times (which was last year). 1 of them had a b-day party in december and she didn't invited me at all. she did last year and we had fun. before i new that they were acting this way ( which was sometime around my b-day) i invited both of them to my b-day party. which they didn't came to. when i called them to ask why they didn't come. ashley mom or sister said that she was shopping with her and she was sleeping. (i called her on my b-day party). and ashley is knowen to lie and act like a b!itch sometimes and my friends and i know that she wasn't sleeping. and i forgot why sara couldn't come. now they hangout with the crowd that i don't really like. (gothy emo crowd. they where black a lot but not like all they way gothic.) and i don't know what to do. should i find a way to tell them or what. should i talk to them with 1 of my friends or what.
2007-03-07 12:04:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to say i dont care about you and tell them off
2007-03-07 12:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would get some new friends. And prepare for this more in life. Youre not in high school yet but when you are this is all that is going to happen. I wish you the best of luck. Sometimes you just need things like this to happen for you to know who your real friends are.
2007-03-07 20:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by LindsayS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paige honey, if Ashley and Sara don't want to be friends with you, it's their loss. Don't sweat it......be friends with the other girls with whom you share common likes and dislikes.
Just be aware that people change......young people especially are prone to change with the speed of fashion and television...so unless you're willing to follow the "krazy katty kats" at every turn, be prepared for some disappointments in your choice of friends.
It's all part of that wonderful generation called "teenagers". SMILE!
2007-03-07 20:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change... you could try talking to them or just stop talking to them all the way I can't really tell you what to do it's one of those things that you have to figure out for your self. Good luck
2007-03-07 21:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by squ_ishy07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would even want to be their friend anymore..you can make more friends u got ur whole life ahead of you...but just go up to them and tell them your not mad but be like whats up with you guys being bitches...but dont get offended by anything they say because they are not your REAL friends...just be the better person
2007-03-07 20:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to talk to them in a none confrontational way if you want get a counselor or a teacher to help you do this and if they dont want to be friends then move on and as far as the one who is known to lie you shold leave that one alone period
2007-03-07 20:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are no longer your friends, they have changed and now are in a new crowd. Forget about them and find friends you have things in common with.
2007-03-07 20:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. they probably lost interest in you over time? did you do anything to them? sometimes you might be doing something that is bothering them but yuo dont even notice it. i think you should find new friends and leave them alone if they dont want to be your friend. why would you want to be friends with girls that are like that anyways?
2007-03-07 20:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by jkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughie.
Well, if they want to be like that, they don't deserve you. You sound really nice and like you have enough common sense. They probably don't want to be your friend anymore, so you shouldn't try to be theirs. That'll just make them even more satisfied.
2007-03-07 20:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kali S. Loves Not You 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its nothing bad if ur friend become goth emo crowd thats who they want to be and that who they want to became but one thing u should do u should at list go talk to them what happend between you and them.
2007-03-07 20:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by gloria s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends anymore and you shouldnt change them. A wise girl leaves before she is left. Be wise and leave them
2007-03-07 20:19:48 · answer #11 · answered by lachica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋