i'm a male to female transsexual, & as part of my transition I've decided to get breast implants. After meeting with the surgeon several times, and based on my frame/size, we've decided on 36 C. I'm happy with that... sorta medium-to-large size. My surgery will be in May (coinciding with my living as a woman full time).
So, even though I'll feel complete, more womanly, to have breasts, I know there will be a pricetag attached... men staring and ogling. Don't get me wrong, I love men and WANT them to find me sexy and attractive, I don't want to just be a piece of meat!
Girls, do you just get used to it after a while, or does it still bother you when some creepy guy stares at your chest (forgetting that you do indeed have a face)?
I also wonder if the weight of my chest will take time getting used to! I mean, I do wear a bra, but there hasn't really been anything "in it" so far >:)
2007-03-07 11:51:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why anyone would WANT C cups is beyond me... but then again, the last time my chest was that small I was in 6th grade. I'm up to DD, and there's a laundry list of things i can't do... for one, jogging is out. I don't care how many bras I wear. Also the back pain (since I have no back side to even it out)... and I can't sleep on my stomach without back pain either.
That being said, when I put something cute on, the attention is nice. People will stare at your boobs, but if you have the personality to go with it, they'll look at your face too- they'll want to hear what you're saying. I guess it could also depend on the people you hang out with.
Good luck with 'em though... My partner's ftm and having his removed, and there are days I'm jealous!!! But I'm sorta attached to mine...
2007-03-07 13:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
A C cup will be bothersome after a while in terms of jogging, finding shirts that fit, and the importance of projecting the image you want to project .
Yes, you'll find its rude when they stare at your chest, but it sounds like that's what you want. You can play with it-if you are in the mood to get noticed, wear a revealing top. If you want to be taken seriously, wear a sweater or a non-revealing top. Plus you'll find out a lot about people by the way they interact with you (stare at your chest, look at your eyes, proximity of how close they are to you...) and then go with that to determine the next move.
Guys stare because they are mesmorized by big breasts. The bigger the better, it seems.
2007-03-07 12:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by Niki 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm a natural 36C and yep, it's something that you'll just get used to! Just don't have them hanging all out though, some girls say they don't like the attention but they've got cleavage showing like the Grand Canyon. I think you will feel strange in the beginning, but the weight won't bother you at all.
2007-03-07 12:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will definitely have to get used to the weight. I have experienced growth in that area and it does make a difference in carrying the additional weight. As for men staring, trust me , you get used to it, and the older you get, if they don't look it ticks you off.
2007-03-07 11:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rosebudd 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really doesn't bother me when men or women look at my breasts. As a matter of fact, I'm glad they do because it means they look fabulous....and they do! ;)
2007-03-07 11:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by S.F. Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they may stare because one goes flat- make sure you get the Facts- they do go bad after time and need to be re-done-
2007-03-07 11:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by drox 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
arent you used to men looking at you now?
2007-03-07 13:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want breasts....amazingly guys will look. Period.
2014-11-22 03:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by robert43041 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id stare at them baby!...
2007-03-07 12:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i guess you can forget about eye contact
2007-03-07 11:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋