Some ideas please!!! I'm not even sure where to start!
2007-03-07 11:51:07 · 11 answers · asked by SadToday22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Visit or do something you've done in the past and try to relive old memories. Don't bring your problems in bed. Fondle him in a public place. Get drunk and let loose.
2007-03-07 11:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have become too routine or too comfortable with each other it can tend to make a marriage fizzle out a bit. Try exploring new ways to surprise him. Candle light dinners, a picnic, a change in the way your are intimate with each other, small love notes left for each other, or even re-create some of the first dates that you had. Men can be stimulated very easily. Tell him how much you miss getting flowers once in awhile(if it's been awhile). Get dressed up for him and tell him you spent all the time doing so to please him. Most men are into a sensual dance every now and then - tell him if you can get some romance going he might like a few more surprises. Sometimes you need to hit us over the head once in awhile, but we do get the point if you thump us hard enough(or use tease us the right way). It can sure build a raging fire if you use a creative mind.
2007-03-07 20:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I recommend that you get the book called "The Secret". The book tells you how to put positive energy into every aspect of your life whether it be your job, friends, marriage, etc. I would encourage you to appreciate your spouse for who they are as oppose to who they are not. When we are in relationships or marriages for a long time, we often get comfortable and start to take the things we once loved and appreciated for granted because it's not new or exciting to us anymore. You should start off by reminding your significant other how much you love them. Leave them a love letter, take a bath together,send dirty text messages, find time to call throughout the day and have verbal foreplay, designate a couple of nights during the week for your set lovemaking nights. You two could even have a movie night and cuddle on the sofa. There are tons of things out to do you just to make the marriage a priority. Good Luck!
2007-03-07 20:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by 1DivineSistuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send the kids to Granny's for the night, light candles all over the house turn the phone, computer, cell phones, off, pull the blinds, fill the tub full of hot water and bubbles, light candles, have a glass of wine soft music don't talk about the kids the bills the friends any school problems, make it all about you two. put some rose pedals on the CLEAN bed with candle's some more soft music, start out by giving each other a body rub with some good body oil and the rest will be history you need to try this ever other month to keep the home fire burning
2007-03-07 20:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spoke with a friend about this just the other day. He suggested buying sexy clothing and giving my husband more attention. Back rubs, love letters, smiles, hugs, basically doing some of the things that come easily when you first start a relationship. It is also important that your husband feels like he is your one and only.
It takes a little work but its worth it?
Good Luck!!
2007-03-07 20:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by slow thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do little things like leave love notes where he will be sure to find them. When he goes into the shower, strip off and join him. Give him a massage. Treat him to his favorite meal. Men love to feel that they are being taken care of, do things that you know he loves. Say I love you.
2007-03-07 19:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get the Dr. Laura's book "The proper care and feeding of husbands". She is clear enough to tell you that if you look up to and flatter and screw and feed your man, he will think your wonderful and do everything you want him to do. that will bring it back.
call him at work and tell him your thinking about him.
leave your panties in his jacket pocket when he goes to work
wisper in his ear what your going to do to him.... later that night when your leaving for an evening out.
shave the kitty....
dress the kitty....
all of these will work.
2007-03-08 00:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by dating once in a while and holding hands and just spend time together talking. I wish you the best of luck .
2007-03-07 20:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A trip two of you have never been just you two..no kids....Spas, pool side, alone time, no phones, no tv, no computers..Just you!
2007-03-07 20:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ask your husband, i mean your dad
2007-03-07 20:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋