My Boyfriend is really big, like thick and long. We did try to have sex, but when he try to get it in I was too tight. Is there anything I can do to make it an easier fit?
Also I would like some alternatives to lube if possiable, but if you know of a good one please do tell.
Thank you for all your help!
2007-03-07 10:59:33 · 7 answers · asked by mcnallyfromthevalley 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It will take some time for your muscles to relax a bit. If it is your first time then you are probably a bit anxious and nervous as well, so try to relax a bit a get your bf to take things really gentle with you. Oral sex can bring on a natural lube for women but you may need some help with other types as well. It may just be a matter of finding what works for you.
TOM K you just didn't get it did you lol lol lol
2007-03-07 11:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, a baby can come out of there so I doubt he is as big as a baby. Learn to relax your body, grin and bear it and you will soon be able to accommodate him well. Unfortunately it may be hard on you to break up with him if you know what I mean. Get married as the marriage bed is undefiled. Make sure you talk to one another and let him know what you like and what he likes. I think one of the biggest problems with sex is not receiving feedback so you know how you are doing and how your mate is feeling. Mmm
2007-03-07 19:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before sex, have him use his fingers. Definitely use some lube. I know you are not talking about anal sex, but analease may be a good lube for you to use, because it numbs some.
2007-03-07 19:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Maymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use some Ky , don't worry 'if it doesn't hurt you , ,or you really want it in you , keep trying , you will get use to the size , and then you'll love it .I,ve had seriously tight women before , but eventually I could get it in , without it cutting off all my circulatio in my pecker , it just takes a little more work ,at first , but believe me you will get used to it ,
2007-03-07 19:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should use KY Jelly . Its the best you shouldnt use vaseline.
2007-03-07 19:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by deogee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a prayer and a shoe horn.
2007-03-07 19:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by juneaulady 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It was tight? I'm not really getting on what your saying. If he's big, then tell him to go on a diet. Sign him up at the local gym(He should of done it himself) and make him eat healthy. No more junk food.
2007-03-07 19:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tom K 2 · 0⤊ 11⤋