some girls prefer to save sex till marriage, and others whenever they think is right....i think that whenever ur ready and u can feel it then it will happen...i dont like to put "TIME" on anything!!! but most of my friends sleep with there guys after being with them for 5 months and when they break up, the guy claims shes "easy".... other gurls wait a year and still they feel stupid at the end... wat do u call easy!??!
2007-03-07 10:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by JB. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say stop caring about what other people think so much. It is your life...If that bimbo down the block thinks your easy..who cares. I really believe that too many people think that "saving sex til marriage" is important. It is an outdated idea made up by nuns in the sixties to deprive "sinners" with enjoyment. Sex is an enjoyable thing. Do not deprive yourself of enjoyment. Just be careful with it...
2007-03-15 09:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think any1 can help u wit this question. its a decision thats totally up to that individual. as for the easy part-why r we caring wat people think?-especially immature guys. Sleeping wit 1 person will automatically make u b a $lut-how? i have no idea cuz it doesn't make any sense. u seem like a pretty smart person though and realize that relationships arent always going 2 last-especially at a young age. if u want 2 wait for marriage-all power 2 u. if u feel like ur ready now..ask a TRUSTED friend how they think ur relationship is going 2 turn out and if ur ready 4 it. often times ur judgement is clouded by how ur feeling for a person at a certain time. Afterwards u might not feel so hot about ur decision and ur friends might have seen it coming.
Anyhow, best of luck:LEMONPEPPER09
2007-03-15 18:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brooke A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy is a term defined differently. It is one of the many labels used to make females feel bad about being just as sexual as males. Don't do anything that is going to make you feel bad when people start to talk about you. Don't question yourself because others are judging you. Judge for yourself. Can you wait for sex? Unless you are orgasmic, then sex before discovering an orgasm is really pointless, and you are basically a guy's nutbucket. Be strong and discover some morals and values for yourself, because without them you will always allow other people's judgment affect you. Peace my sister!
2007-03-15 16:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by JaZbWell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i think that if you dont wait till your married to hace sex the guys will think you are easy just cus there moms told them to wait to have sex so when a girls gives it up before marriage the guys will think they are easy
and second i think you have to be careful with who you date cus if he is a bad guy he will just use you
but if you have a good guy on your hands and you slip up and you sleep with each other he will still love you
but i think it is only safe to wait till you married i mean after your married the guy cant just up and leave and say ok by now and plus you have to be in love ot get married or at least you should and after your married you can have sex all you want and no one will think you easy and there is no chance that someone will think your easy good luck girl i hope you make the best choice for yourself
2007-03-07 19:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, in this sense, is anyone who gives into the pressure or temptation to have sex when they are not married. The Bible says that sex is intended for a husband and wife - ONLY. The old cliche is true - True love waits. If the other person is not willing to wait then they are not the right person.
2007-03-15 17:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by revtimothyward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like theres bad easy and sad/hopless easy, maybe even a different kind too, but like bad easy is when your a sl u t, sad/hopless easy which is like a girl feel in love with a boy and the boy turned out to be a jerk then apologizes and she forgives (kind of more of a abusive relationship) and they make up and kiss and it ends into sex...
2007-03-15 17:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by yayme_denae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't started having sex and you can wait until you are married then do just that. But if you have already started having sex is going to be very hard to stop and wait until you're married,
2007-03-15 17:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about it 4 a minute if you have sex with 5 diffrent people before you get married and when you finally get married how is it suspose to feel special with him it might just feel like your just with another person see what i mean not trying to sond harsh but it is the truth
2007-03-15 13:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just said it yourself they all feel used and they all broke up. I'll try not to sound holy but It says in the bible to wait and that God will honor that. If you dont believe in him just stand up for yourself.
Hope this helps hun.
2007-03-15 18:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Alayna H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say being "easy" is having intercourse with someone you dont truely love. thats easy
2007-03-15 17:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋