My name is Ashura, I know it sounds like a s name. I don't like it, so most people call me by Ash. I'm a kid in need of some help. I've spent days and nights crying. i feel like my world is coming to an end. I need some help, I can't see anyone about this. Everything was going good up till the divorce of my parents and the accident of my parents. But I won't get in to that because i'm trying to stop crying, and that will just make me cry more. I don't know what to do. I don't wnat to see a doctor or any professional people, so I decided to ask a question on here about. Please can anyone help me? I'm scared. I'm also looking for a friend that can be there for me no matter whatever happens. Thanks for those who say yes. Those who don't think they can trust or don't want to be my friend, can you please at least tell me a site that preteens can chat on. It will help me out alot, it will also help out if anyone can trust me enough to help me or be my friend.
2007-03-07 10:51:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First things first. You should first express your feelings and fears to one or both of your parents, grandparents, aunt or uncle, clergy or if all fails go to your teacher and/or guidance councilor because all of this is quite a bit for a kid your age to have to process alone. Heck, it's hard enough for adults to process. But anyway, try to get help from those close to you and people you know and trust. Trying to get on line help is risky for you because there are a lot of creepy people on-line and it's not worth the risk.
2007-03-07 11:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by clayp72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw well you kinda need to describe what your problem is more if you want someone to be able to help you. So far it sounds like your upset about your parents divorcing? My parents almost got divorced when I was little...they decided not to but most of the time it after that it seemed like they should have because of how much they used to fight, especially in front of my brother and myself. Well I'd try to help you if I knew exactly what you needed help with. I'll see if there is a descent chatroom for preteens but their might not be, the internet isn't always a good place for young people.
2007-03-07 18:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll run into many true idiots who try to be bad-asses (for example: "effya" above) by verbally abusing anyone they feel is an easy target. People like "effya" can only make their pitiful existence SEEM significant by trashing and insulting others. At your age, you may not always spot these morons, but keep in mind that when someone insults &/or verbally abuses you for no apparent reason then you're probably dealing w/ one of these mental midgets. So don't let it get to you,.. just ignore them,.. they're harmless and INSIGNIFICANT,.. and will quickly go away if you ignore them.
2007-03-07 19:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by RockHanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i might can help lol... my parents are tring to get a dicove thingy to... but see my dad is dieing so i don't want them to. i think u should talk to ya parents about it and stuff see what's going on.... and i can't really help u on the website b/c i don't really do a lot of chating so anyways just talk to ya parents tell them how u feel and just be strong.... u well always love them i mean any when u think u don't u know ur lieing lol... so cheer up, work hard in school... oo maybe if u expain a lil better what's going on i could give a lil better advise i done been though a lot w/ my parents... :(
2007-03-07 19:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Gel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hunny that must be really hard i know how hard it is to have your parents split it Hurst so bad and to have them get in an accident would just make things worse i felt hopeless and that my life was over to but if you hang in there babe it will get better
i think the bet people to talk to are you family or a therapist i know it sounds weird but therapist go to years of college for you exact problem and i go to one my dad is one and he goes to a therapist its normal to feel bad but try changing the way you think every time you have a negative thought like "oh today is going to suck" stop yourself and say "i am going to have a good day today and try your hardest to make it a great day
did you know that the mind has so much power over the body that what ever mood you are in your body will mimic that so if you tell yourself you will have a good attitude then the rest of you will
2007-03-07 19:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stay away from online chat rooms online. You never know who you might be dealing with. Find a friend at school who will be a true friend that will listen and not judge. You will feel better if you just find that person and let all out. Good Luck!
2007-03-07 18:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by William 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you need to calm down alittle and relax do something you injoy your parents would want you to be happy and to enjoy life to the fullest listen to your inner self. i used to be this way not want to do anything fearing i was letting everyone down and nothing i did would be good. then i got help from a doctor that helped me relax with medication. i understand you dont want to go that route. so her are some choices you have, you can let your life just past you by or u can change right now and take a deep breath and believe in your self think why you are upset or hate something write them down then tear it up into pieces. that helped me alittle then i thought of getting involved in like animals or something i really injoyed and do that when i feel sad or down. like i dance and liten to music when iam fustrated or upset, so do something that you love like if you love baseball go throw so balls or play on a league you need to get out there its the only way to get better and yes i will talk if you need to just email me if you want to best of luck.
2007-03-07 19:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ashura i will be your friend
well maybe you could go to a local theim park or the rec center well i am sorry that your parents had just got a divorce and you dont have any friends but best wishes and god bless!
sincerly weasal!
2007-03-08 13:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by AFYTON! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be your friend Ash. My name is Danielle email me at letsgomason@yahoo.com ok u can talk to me anytime u want ok. I'm 13 and i'm in 7th grade. how old are u? and what grade are u in?
2007-03-07 18:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by letsgomason 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah I will be your friend a place you can chat with your friends and somtimes me is on myspace.com look for me my name is yesenia juarez.look for me as yesenia_99 I think am not sure but on my myspace my email is lil_juarez@yahoo.com. My real email is juarez_llesenia@yahoo.com you can email me anytime you want to.
2007-03-07 19:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋