When I was a teenage I fell in love with two guys, I married one and the other one ended up going to prison. My husband has been passed away now for seven years and Ive tried dating but keep thinking about the one in prison. I'm still in love with him and have been talking to him all the time he's been in. I'm now in a new relationship with a female and he's going to be getting out soon. I love my girlfriend and him but don't know what to do. My feelings for both of them are very strong. What would you do stay with the one your with now or go to your old love?
2007-03-07 10:50:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jennifer 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ask yourself this.... Which one do you NOT WANT to live without? Thats the one.
I have been there. In quite the same situation.
2007-03-07 15:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think about how much you love them and how they wil end up treating you? Before the guy went to prison, were you two close? if he has no idea that you like him, he may not feel the same, and you'll never see him cause may get locked up again.
You said that you love all 3 of them the same, so maybe you should figure out how much they love you; if they are willing to spend the rest of their life with you. Good Luck.
2007-03-07 19:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant love both at the same time,from what u typed sounds to me that u love this prison man
2007-03-07 21:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder what he went to prison for. I'd be more inclinded to stay with the one that didn't go to prison. I think I would trust their stability more.
2007-03-07 19:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stick with the one who hasn't gone to prison, personally.
2007-03-07 18:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋