My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.
I know its not really a pregnacy question but it is something we often have to consider when pregnant so i though it may be appropriate
2007-03-07 10:35:24 · 15 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would question why your husband is doing this. Is it medically necessary? It can take a long time for the penis to heal if he is older. Complications can include bleeding and infection. And sex may feel different for both you and him. Contrary to popular belief, it is not more hygienic, no more than you would be if you removed your labia.
Unless a doctor is advising him to do this I would counsel him against it.
2007-03-07 11:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by sparklish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've only been with one uncircumcised man. I can't say if sex will feel different or not, because we used a condom and it felt the same as always. How old is your husband? Do you know why he's thinking about it now? What are his reasons for wanting it done? I've heard it can be very painful as an adult and that it can take longer to heal, but I don't know if that's actually true or not.
2007-03-07 10:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by It's Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 09:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by miracle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is is a great idea for your husband to get circumcised. Sex will be better for the both of you especially for him because he will have alot more feelings during sex. Also, it is healthier to be circumcised..
A male friend of mind recently had his done and from what I hear he is loving sex alot more and it also looks alot better. I have 3 sons and they are all circumcised.. The only thing is your husband is going to be in alot of pain at first but it is so worth it.. Good luck to you guys!!!!
2007-03-07 11:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its really not that big of a deal as far as sex and stuff go. My husband is uncircumcised but I've been with men before marriage who were. The only thing I'll say is I like giving oral sex better if the guy is circumcised. Well good luck.
2007-03-07 10:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl68132 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have not been in your shoes. But why would your husband consider this? I had a cousin have it done when he was 16 because he had an infection and the Dr. felt it might fix the problem. He was in so much pain. He was miserable. As for your husband obviously his parts all work so why mess with it. The best advice though is that if you have a boy do it right away!!!!
2007-03-07 10:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by mommyrocks 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, in the Bible times, all Hebrew males HAD to be circumcised. And they were fully capable of getting women pregnant. So no worries about the pregnancy thing. He can still get you pregnant and he is still fully capable of creating/releasing sperm. It's as trivial as...say...a hair cut. It doesn't do anything to the hair follicles. Just like a circumcision does not do anything to the little swimmers and the factory. =]
So don't worry about that.
And sex will still feel fine. It will still feel like sex. And he will still be your husband. And everything will be...fine. =]
Good luck
2007-03-07 10:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe u should ask him why he wants to get circumcised and once u figure that out i guess you guys can solve it. i have no idea about the whole lovemaking thing. but i doubt it will be any different.
2007-03-07 10:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mine was circumcised a couple year ago at 23. g/f and I both MUCH prefer it now. sex 100times better for me, much improoved for the g/f. and not really that painful. just uncomfortable for a week or so.
support him, let him go ahead with it. sanitary, like, no matter how much he pulls the skin back it will always be cleaner with no skin there to cover in first place. ....
2007-03-10 01:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know, my husband is circumsized but I cant imagine it making a differnce with sex. I dont really understand why your husband wants to get one after so long but just be supportive Im sure everything will work out fine. :)
2007-03-07 10:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by k_tallent01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋