I'm having a party this summer. My best friend is planning it. We're both 13 years old. See, she's a really good planner. So I asked her to plan my party. See, my mom told me I could invite 20 people. So when I made the guest list and mailed out the invitations, I forgot to put her on!!! It was too late to cancel the invites. They were already to everone's house! I asked my mom if I could have 1 extra person but she said no. I called my best friend and told her. She seemed a little sad. And we got into a fight. I told her that it's better off that she's NOT there! I called her a lot of mean names too. She said that I'm insensitive. But the truth is, I forgot put her on the list on purpose. I really didn't want her there. Is she right? Did I do something wrong? I think she's just jelous because I have more friends. What do you think?
2007-03-07 10:35:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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Im sorry, but I have to agree with everyone else, that was pretty messed up. Maybe you dont like her as a best friend anymore but she still like you. She probably feels really hurt and sad that your "forgot" to invite her. Though you may not like her, she's your BEST friend. Best friends are above all other friends. It was kind of mean not to invite her because you both seemed close and you guys were BEST friends for gods sake. If anything, she should have been on the top of the list, the first one. Hmm. Maybe you can tell this to your mom, what you typed on here, and hopefully she'll understand. It would be rude to uninvite someone to invite your best friend but it would also be rude not to uninvite her. I hoped this helped!
2007-03-07 12:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you ask your friend to basically throw you a party do all the work and then you dont invite her???? and then want to know if something is wrong with you??? you are a spoiled little brat who has no idea what a real friend is and one day you wont have anyone to talk to because everyone will find out what a user you are. i think your friend should call everyone she invited to your party and tell them the place has been changed to her house and leave you sitting all alone.... you are a very mean person and if my daughter acted like this i would take her party away and ground her for a very long time....
2007-03-07 18:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by crazyme 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you may dislike a person, I think you really should have invited her. She must have put a lot of plan and effort into YOUR party, yet she doesn't get to join in on the fun? If you didn't invite her on purpose, why did you let her plan your party and still call her your best friend? =\
2007-03-07 18:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by ;) 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would you let her PLAN a party and not want her there. That was very insensitive. I was unwritten that she was invited if she is the party planner. You should have handled it differently and not had her help planning it. You weren't a good Friend. I would be hurt.
2007-03-08 01:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think eventually your gonna get what you deserve. Your going to make a friend and they will treat you like crap, and its going to hurt your feeling real bad. then maybe you'll understand how she feels. If you really wanted to you could have her there. Why don't you want her there. You shouldn't of asked her to plan the party for you, If I was her Id sabotage your party. sorry
2007-03-08 00:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were extremely insensitive and thoughtless. Your friend actually deserves a better friend than you have been to you. You have used her. You have offended her. It will take a lot to make it up to her. If you want to keep her as a friend, you will need to start working on being more sensitive and in paying her back in some way. Get to work, you have your work cut out for you.
2007-03-07 18:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
your friend planned your party. you PURPOSELY forgot to invite her, why should she be your friend, you havent been a friend to her. I dont mean to sound mean but look at the facts.
2007-03-07 18:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by ladidadida 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats extremely selfish. how is she going to be
you "best friend" -- and she planned your party
for free. why dont u just invite her. no offense
but not all 20 ppl are gona show.
2007-03-07 21:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats really mean of u. After all u were best friends
2007-03-07 21:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by kissingislove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you did her wrong, and she deserves an apology. Although you forgot to invite her accidentally......do did say some mean words to her. Think about it.
2007-03-07 18:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋