Hey
Its nothing nasty about doing that.
Its nasty when its not that one special someone that's in your life.
Just make sure he shaves and take a shower.
If you don't want to try it the first time bare do it with a condom.
They come in all kinds of flavors.
And tell him if you going to do it he has to do it as well.
They have females condoms too in all kinds of flavors.
Just try it once and see if you like it.
Just don't let him *** in your mouth that's nasty.
Hope this help.
Have fun girl.
You only live once.
2007-03-07 10:42:37
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answered by Lisa 2
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Nasty....Mmmmmm some people may think that it is nasty or gross or even terrible or against thier religion that men and woman do this to each other. I think that each person has thier own way of dealing with a situation like this. I have some questions for you...1) has your husband been with you since school or since you were both a bit younger? if so then I would think it safe to say that if he has never had a BJ before then he would be amazed that you took the effort to do something like this to him, or he may think that you are the love of his life for accepting such a wonderful "attempt" from you to please him like this. 2) Has your husband been with other women prior to you?
again, if not he will feel like a god knowing that you are contiplating doing such a personal thing for him. If your husband married you and knew that you were not interested in doing the "act" then he is a great guy hold on tight to him. I think that you should do what YOU want to do. Dont be forced by other opinions only do what makes you fee alright. If giving your husband a BJ and he knowingly knows that you dont like it then do not do it. If your husband knows the struggles you are going throught because of this then he would not force you into doing something you do not want to do. I myslef like to please a man by doing this. I love to watch thier faces and watch the pleasure that I am giving them. Of course not many woman would have a good feeling knowing that a man just ran a mile and then asked to do the "act" while he is all sweaty. At night before going to bed both of you could hop in the shower together and you could lather each other up and get each other all worked up in the shower, you will BOTH be clean down there and will have one less thing to worry about. You could start out by kissing his neck and then lower to his chest, then to his stomach and belly button, and then you can lick and taste the top of him. See what that is like first before going crazy and not likeing something. Hope that is helpful.
2007-03-07 10:48:15
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answered by Anonymous
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There is nothing nasty about the human body...unless it is unwashed! What you are talking about can be a lot of fun
and isn't nasty at all. Do you let him do you? Do each other at the same time. If you don't like the looks of things down there then just keep your eyes closed! LOL Odds are if you have never done this for him that you won't have to stay down there for very long....should be over quite quickly~
Let us know how it went???
2007-03-07 10:06:51
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answered by Keenu 4
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The only way to get over it is to do it. Close your eyes and just pretend you are sucking on a lollipop or a good ice cream treat. It will feel good to him and then he can do you and that feels the best. Most men must have it to stay in a relationship if I were you I would hope that my hubby isn't getting head from somewhere else. I think you should do it for his birthday and then if you don't like it don't do it again but I think once you see how much he enjoys it you will want to do it for him again. I hated doing it until I got with the guy I have been with for 5yrs. He really enjoys it and now I enjoy doing it for him. Its not like he is your bf he is your hubby you are supposed to do things with him that you can't with other people
2007-03-07 10:28:04
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answered by badazz_51 4
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I used to feel the same way, I don't let my fiance do it to me hardly at all. For him thought its different. Guys like it ALOT for some odd reason and I think its a very small token of my appreciation for all he does for me. If you think of it as nasty then yeah its nasty. But I think the best way to start off is in the shower, that way if taste or smell bothers you, you will have the water close at hand and the shower will distract you abit. Just try not to get worked up so much. Try dropping something in the shower infront of him and just like that BAM he's in your mouth. Don't let him know, that way its a HUGE suprise! Good Luck.
2007-03-07 10:31:58
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answered by monkeysgirl04 3
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Is there a specific reason you think it's nasty? If it's because you are worried about it being dirty you could have him shower first. My husband and I never give each other oral sex unless we've showered recently. It's just a matter of preference.
Also if it's the taste of semen you are worried about you can request he does not ejaculate in your mouth or you could use a condom. They come in different flavors and such as well. My husband knows that ejaculating in my mouth is a no-no so he always warns me when he's close so we can avoid that happening.
Adult and novelty stores sell flavored creams and gels you can use as well to make the taste better. I've never tried them but I've heard good things about them.
I hope this helps, good luck!
2007-03-07 10:08:29
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answered by savannahs.mommie 2
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I think you have sexual insecurities that you need to get over. Love and sex should be at a comfortable level but I think oral sex is very beautiful. It shows that you love everything about someone. Maybe if you take a shower together you will think it is clean and not nasty. Sometimes trying something can change your mind. Give it a shot, no one says you have to swallow, use it as part of foreplay and finish with intercourse.
2007-03-07 10:31:05
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answered by Anonymous
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its all in you mind you wont be able to do it if you are thinking its nasty. Maybe put something eatable on it so it doesn't seem like his Private part. Then take it from there. Close your eyes as well so you don't have to see it. Or stare into his...a loving "does this make you happy" stare not a "OMG I'm going to puke" one! Anything to keep your mind off of what you are doing...you might even end up liking it!
2007-03-07 10:07:39
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answered by tweedy778 3
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I'll say this, don't even try if you can't go through with it. I had my wife do the same a birthday thing said she would then back out. I was very angry with her about acting like she would then not going through. Another thing if you do it just for his Bday and he feels like you really aren't enjoying it that will be bad too. If you do it fake the enjoyment part too. At least act like you are loving every minute of it. Good luck
2007-03-07 10:27:43
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answered by David J 2
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I never wanted to give a guy oral sex before my husband. But I can honestly say his taste ans smell is so sexually arousing for me when I think about it I need to find him and give him a ******* that moment.
I couldn't tell you why every guy before him disgusted me...Maybe its because I love him and everything about him...even naughtier nastier things that what your discribing...child's play lol.
If you dont like it though don't do it. I persoanlly won't swallow...its not the taste that bothers me its the texture, it reminds me of swallowing mucus. I've done it once before, its not for me.
But I think ur really making to much of it. You should let him do it to you...your denying yourself a great amount of pleasure...plsu you get to be all greedy about it. Get drunk and let him go down on you. Its so much fun.
2007-03-07 10:39:16
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answered by Anonymous
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