I have just split from the girl i love and she lives with me,she seems not to be affected and is laughing alot and i think she is already moving on after not even a week.i dont want to know but im scared something will slip or it will come up in conversation and i will be devastated, i dont want to look like it is affecting me as mch as it is because it doesnt seem to be bothering her. the thing is we used to go out as a group of friends but now she seems to be taking the group away from me too so no i have noone and feel even more isolated than i did before.
2007-03-07 09:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is probably so pissed off at you for making her hurt that she is going to make you hurt and pay. She will act like she does not care about when it is completly the opposite.
I suggest you move out now before you get hurt more.
She is on the rebound and probably has already found someone to hang out with and talk to, but wont tell you about it while she can't wait for you to figure it out because you will be crushed when you do.
2007-03-07 10:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably hurting just as much as you are but is using laughter as a defence mechanism, it's surprising what you'll do to mask how you really feel in situations like this.
The friends thing is difficult, when i split up with an old partner i lost a lot of friends, not because I'd done anything wrong but because i was friends with my ex's sister in law and in my case blood really was thicker than water and they stuck together along with other friends within the inner circle, most of them found the situation with me and ex difficult and simply opted to part company with me mainly because the girls in the circle had B/F who were my ex's friends!
It did bother me at the time and i was very hurt by the way they all seemed to close ranks, but gradually i got over it and actually realised what a bunch of self centered fools they were.
Your ex can only pull your friends away from you if they allow her to, hopefully they will prove how much your friendship means to them and stick by your side.
Maybe it's time your ex did move out, it's hard splitting up anyway without having to see that person every day.
Trust me it might not seem like it now, but things will get better it just takes time.
Take care and good luck
2007-03-07 18:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be hurting too but is trying to make you think she is not by laughing and having a good time.
Not to be rude but she could also already moved on.
Next time, don't live with a girl, and date one that has respect for herself and wants a commitment (marriage) before living together. Then you will know you have a keeper.
Good luck!
2007-03-07 17:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must try to be strong, if you want her back tell that you do, if she does not want you then move on, you must accept it if the relationship is over. Surely someone in the group of friends you went around with will stay friendly with you, if not they never were friends. Do not feel isolated and do not mope get motivated and fight for what you want. Good luck
2007-03-07 23:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joey -
Chances are she is hurting too, but she is just hiding it better.
Dont let her take your group of friends.........you can go out with them just as easily.......... call them up and get a time set up.
Also, move out!!!
2007-03-07 17:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
* Dont act like a typical guy and not show you re feelings take a chance and tell her how you feel , girls dont usually show how they feel after a fight *
2007-03-07 17:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD MAKE HER MOVE OUT. ITS BEST FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.
2007-03-07 18:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋