I'm a straight girl who almost 19 and I only been in one reall relationship . I'm having trouble be happy with being straight and i dont know why I really do like guys so very much and I have only crushed on guys , but I cant help but wish that i was bi and i dont know how to over come this .I have even got depressed a few times cause i try to accept that I'm staright and ended up tilling my self may be I'm bi and i felt better. How do i over come wishing i was bi? I know this sounds very weird but its a reall problem for me.
P.s I'm not a lesbian in denial .
2007-03-07 09:24:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
oops i ment being happy not be happy.
2007-03-07 09:26:43 · update #1
be thankful
2007-03-13 07:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
1. Recognize that you are fine just being who you are, whatever that is or will be.
2. Accept that you do not need another person to be happy; to be happy is your own decision.
3. Be pleasant and friendly to all people without categorizing them into straight, gay, male, female, etc.
4. Take note that there is no law that says everybody has to be "hooked up" or "married" or have a b/f or g/f and it is not compulsory to have an active sex life.
5. Instead of being wrapped up in yourself try looking for ways to bring happiness to others. You will be amazed to find how good you can feel when you give instead of just receiving pleasure. There are all kinds of opportunities to volunteer and serve others.
2007-03-15 08:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by fra59e 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you're trying to think up an excuse to why you haven't had a bf by making yourself think you're lesbian or bisexual. Well, you know you definitely are NOT!
Idk any details of your life but if you go to college then become friends with anyone and everyone! If you're too shy to talk to guys, talk to girls and see where and when the get-togethers or the parties are. Join clubs and such. This way you can talk to guys. Become more comfortable around them.
If you aren't in college, try talking to guys at work or your friends' friends. Basically, surrounding yourself with other people and the male sex will get all this nonsense off your mind. Also, you may find a guy you'd like to date. They don't bite!
2007-03-07 09:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sweetie....you really don't know your orientation yet. just go with your heart right now. if you are attracted to guys then stick with guys down the road. later on in life if you think that you might be bi then find out then. just live life to the fullest.
2007-03-15 07:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Just Tryin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are lesbian, or maybe you are bi. You better ask yourself and resolve that problem you have! Maybe you can go to psychiatrist who is an expert in those kind of problems! I think that will help you!
Good luck!
2007-03-14 14:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by GORDON HILLS 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey be happy being single is not that bad live your life to the fullest and being a couple and married is not what it is cracked up to be. Its not a bed of roses.
2007-03-14 12:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st , you are young & opportuntities will arise as you get older , esp when you are 21 yrs old ( if you plan to go out to clubs, ect.. ) its not abnormal to feel the way you do. when you are faced with a situation & have the choice to experience the opposite sex, it is then you will go with instinct. and then you will better know your true feelings : ) peace-out lynny
2007-03-07 09:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by keepthepeace 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is very natural for a female to be attracted to another female. this does not make you bi. girls experiment all the time and find out they realy dont want to be with a female. relax.
2007-03-07 09:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should just try it. It couldn't hurt and then you would know for sure. Go on a date with someone (lady) from another city.
2007-03-07 09:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
MY friend the only way they over came this life style was they gave their hearts to the LORD.
2007-03-07 09:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Go Bi, you double your chances.
Girls being bi is cool guys can't be bi they are only gay.
2007-03-07 09:28:17 · answer #11 · answered by Timovgod 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋