if your 18 year old child told you that she was pregnant. keep in mind she has been with the guy for 2 years and truly wants to marry him and both parentsl ike him alot. also the child has already graduated from high school and has a great full time job.
2007-03-07 09:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by BrittanyB 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
honest answers please because im telling my parents tonight...
2007-03-07 09:27:05 · update #1
It's not the best way to start out a marriage, because you do a lot of growing up between 18 and 40, but if you both are ready to be parents and make the sacrifices involved, I'd cry, then help plan your wedding.
Good luck.
2007-03-07 09:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Croa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, "Wow. Okay. How can I help. Thank you for telling me but Im okay with it." If he is already graduated and has a job and you guys have been going out for a long time and stuff it sounds good. GOOD JOB!
2007-03-07 09:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her, and let her know that your there for her, this baby was no mistake, God doesn't make mistakes.
It would be a shame if you missed out on your grandchild. Be a support to her and her guy, this is when they will both need you the most.
2007-03-07 09:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by tropicalg77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is 18 and not really a child any more i would be there for her and help her in any way that i could ( went though this last summer she lost the baby though )
2007-03-07 09:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u sound responsible enough, and i think ur relitivly old enough so i would just say sumthing like congratulations.... although im 14 so, parents might have a different veiw lol
2007-03-07 09:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing that i could do except support them. I would make sure the baby is taken care of reguardless.(mom of 3)
2007-03-07 09:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by bamabice2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ultimately the decision it is up to the parents wouldn't matter if she was thirteen, uneducated, and jobless just be there to support her in her decision and wish her luck and happiness.
2007-03-07 09:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by greenluxi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your an adult. They will be hurt but if you think you can do this then let them know that.
2007-03-07 09:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would b fine but then again..im lke in ms
2007-03-07 09:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be, 'wow, that is young, can I help?'
2007-03-07 09:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋