i just found out that one of my guy friends has liked me for 3 years. I am not sure if i like him.?

Question

I have never had a serious boyfriend before so im not sure if him saying he likes me is meaning that he wants to date. He asked what i thought of him because one night after drinkng we fooled around so i think i instilled false hope in him. But i figure of we fooled around then maybe there is a chance that i like him. He is such a nce guy im just not sure if i like him or not. How would i know if i like him. should i say maybe we can just hang out more and seee what happens?

Answer 1

Well, if you think he's a nice guy, but you're not sure if you like him, tell him that you need some time to think about it, and hang around him a little more, in less friend-like situations and more date-like situations, just to see how it feels to be on a date with him. And, if you like how it feels, then go for it! A lot of good relationships should start off with a strong friendship, which it sounds like you have. Good luck!

Answer 2

No. Listen. You only fooled around with him because you were both drinking. If you aren't sure when you are sober....then don't do it. Listen to yourself when you are sober only. Maybe you think you NEED a boyfriend. Trust me. Hold out for the right guy. If you had been attracted to this guy THAT WAY, you would have know before 3 years was up.

Answer 3

If you don't like him like that, you probably know it already. He may be your friend, but sometimes it's better to be friends then to cross the line into b/f-g/f. It's hard when someone likes you, but you don't like them like that. You need to talk to him about it. Explain that what happened was because of the alcohol (which you shouldn't be having anyways!!) and you are sorry that it went as far as it did. Tell him you like as a friend, and you are very glad he is your friend. You don't need to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you loose him as a friend, over this, then he wasn't the friend you need.